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is sex painful for anyone else?

I just hit my 17 week mark. And for almost a month now sex has been if not painful, kind of uncomfortable. My bf isn't small and he trys not to go to deep but it just seems like no matter what it hurts. And most of the time afterwards baby is not a happy camper. I didnt have this issue with my first pregnancy and im just wondering if im the only one.
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My sex drive was high until I reached 14 weeks. It totally went down hill. Now im 35 weeks and have yet to reached an orgam. I feel so bad for my boyfriend
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7174950 tn?1406661109
With my other girls I was wanting sex all the time but with is 1 sometimes I want sex even thow using want to lol and I'm having another little girl :-) but try and have it often as possible then it won't hurt as much and try lub if you've got some xx
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I feel no interest in sex honestly, and before the pregnancy my husband and I couldn't get enough of each other! Now I honestly just put up with it for him because I know how hard he works and he's such a great husband that I just want to please him, even if it's not too often. The only thing is that we have to adjust our positions and I make him stop sometimes for a little bit when my stomach starts hurting..just gotta find a comfortable way for you guys
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7174950 tn?1406661109
It hurts for me and its because you don't have sex that often that's why hun like I hardly have sex and my bf ent small either but I enjoy it but it hurts at the same time  but have it as often as you can and then it won't hurt hun sometimes I'm not in to sex lol witch I'm socked lol but it won't always hurt
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Sane here :/ i hate it !!! Ough .
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My sex driving is still strong but its just painful and I feel bad cause he trys not to hurt me but half the time we have to stop. And I can barely please him cause my gag reflex is super sensitive since I got pregnant.
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Im 21 weeks. And It hurts when we have intercourse also. He gets mad and thinks I dont like to have sex with him lol. Its hard to explain to him when he is turned on.
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My walls hurt so bad I just wanna cry if I even try to have sex
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Same here. My sex drive had kinda gone out the window and he gets kinda mad cause we were kinda nympos before lol
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Do either one of you know what your having? cause idk yet and my first was a girl and there was no pain with her..
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Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex when I. Came and visited him but my walls would become very sore he couldn't even put it in. Than I would cramp in my stomach, it was terrible
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Same way here, uncomfortable & painful..then the baby cramps up and it hurts my stomach :/ ugh
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I'm 14w3d. I don't enjoy sex at all. It hurts badly and im unsure why :/
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