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I feel like I shouldn't be pregnant and I should've never been born
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11928313 tn?1437358907
Yes I plan to start next week
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11928313 tn?1437358907
Thanks for sharing
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I was in the same boat at 7 months pregnant I was feeling like I was going to be a horrible mom and questioning whether me and my husband made the right choice and have a baby. We were living wit my parents to save up money for a house but I've had abuse at home my whole life and it wasn't letting up during my pregnancy I was always stressed and hated my pregnancy. Finally after a heated brawl with my mom at 7 months my husband finally stepped in and said we were moving at the end of the month.

My mother didn't like it and threw us out that day. I'm waiting for the apartment to be ready still and we r staying at his parents until the 25yh when it'll be ready and I'm telling u even though I'm still not settled in and moved yet, just the difference in the atmosphere has made my mom instincts kick in and I love my pregnancy. I'm hurt that my family has totally closed me off and is still giving me problems via text but I ignore it and embrace the changes I'm making for her.

Its hard but realizing your happiness is worth more than anyone can try to get u to feel otherwise has been a big change and hopefully you are able to make the changes u need too. Idk how many times in the last 2, weeks I've cried and not from stress and hating myself, but from happiness of knowing my baby is kicking or that I won't wake up the next day sitting on my bed quietly listening to my mom to see if she's in a good mood, or if everyone is gone so that I can get in the kitchen really quick to fix me something to eat(yeah it was to the point no one was inviting me to eat at family meals anymore and my husbands hardly home from working so much overtime) I hope u get the happiness u and ur baby deserve ask your doc for options to and programs to get you started if need be
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Well hey good luck! And congrats on your pregnancy! Its a life changing experience and its hard but its worth it. Your baby is going to love you more than anyone ever has, and I'm sure you'll feel the same about him/her. There are a bunch of adds that pop up on Facebook to sign up for free baby stuff. And getting stuff in the mail is always fun esp. If its free ;) but it might cheer you up. Try signing upfor a baby registry, I did at target and target sent me a bunch of coupons and a $15 gift card for anything on the registry.
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11928313 tn?1437358907
Hopefully I can
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Hmm.. well maybe find a new place? I know its hard but I moved at 5 months pregnant and I have a new place and I feel a lot happier
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11928313 tn?1437358907
I'm keeping my baby its more of problems at home
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11928313 tn?1437358907
I'm keeping my baby its more of problems at home
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Talk to your doctor, a lot of girls get depressed during pregnancy. I did at the begining. There are always other options if you don't want to keep your baby. Maybe you should find a family that really wants and will love your baby to death.
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