think im causing pregnancy symptoms!

[Emzki30]

ok im desperate to get pregnant & evry month im hoping i am so bad & one of my friends has told this month is the month for me & since then i can not stop thinking about it, like evry second of evry day. i was on my period the 4 of july until until th 7th & supposedly ovulating 12th to the 17th as my cycle is about 24 days  had sex on the 10th 12th, 16th & then about 4times on the 17th, but evry since the 13th i have been getting cramps that then changed into weird twinges & stil have this pain to this day, i have been feeling vry vry tired &have been getting rather bad headacres since too. Also the last few days very bad bloating & have been feeling a bit queezy & alittle nauseous. But is this far to early to be feeling like this as im not due on until the 30th, am i causing this to myself as this is all i can think about & if it is, how the hell do i STOP myself from do this! Im going mad, please some advise would be great if anyone can.

[Emzki30]

thank u so much, so i do i, know its early days yet. but Woo Hoo

[Emzki30]

omg so soz im so excited & so overwhelmed its unreal.lol Good luck & lots of baby dust to all u ladys that need it too. & thank for all the great comments. I cant believe i actually new my own body better than i thought i did.lol

[AUSTIN431]

congrats i hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months !

[Emzki30]

i was right, i did 3 Tests yesterday they are all POSTIVE!!! WOO HOO

[kimberleychick2011]

i have an agonising week to wait before im testing! as that will make me 9-10 dpo , but got some good signs, cramping fatigue, abit of dizzyness every so often and last 2 days been downing pints of vimto! very thirsty! i wish it was next thursday lol x

[Melenita]

Sperm is at its healthiest when kept cool, so boxers are indeed the way to go. thats why
doctors say that very hot showers aint good for men, it does affect the sperm and it quality.
a change of lifestyle and habits are as good as anything.....

its so easy to say relax, but when one longs for a baby,,,,, its so difficult....
baby dust to all you lovely ladies...

[Clysta]

Best thing to do is not look into every symptom. They really are unreliable and don't mean or tell anything. As many women will tell you, you can have every pregnancy symptom there is and not be, same as you don't need symptoms to actually be pregnant. Stress is the best birth control, and the minute you stop obsessing it happens. You have also only been trying for 5 months---this is a very short time. Bear in mind a couple only has a 25% chance of conception, and it can take a year+ to fall pregnant naturally.

Before you do fall pregnant though, you would do best to stop smoking and if you can get your partner to it would be even better. Smoking has been known to hinder conception, and if you don't stop before you get pregnant you're not likely going to start once you fall pregnant either. Best to have a healthy body for baby to grow in before they are even conceived.

[kimberleychick2011]

you will get ur result soon im sure ;-) its only recently ive started to notice when im ovulating and gettng to know my cycle like the back of my hand! as i was on the depo shot and the iud mirena after that,they say wait 19days after unprotected sex to take the test,ive been advised to take mine on the 25th, which will be 4 days before my monthly is due, i hope this will give me the result im hoping for, when can you take your test?

[Emzki30]

thank you evry1, & i know what ur saying, but it soooooo hard not to think about esp when lots of my friends are falling only after a month of trying & i have been having unprotected sex since feb. :-( i think once i get past this month, hopefully i will settle & yes we both smoke so thats a defo need to give up & i do take my folic every day for the last 4months. argghhhh its so hard & to day once again i have woke up with strange pains in belly, back acre & headacre once again.lol. & i do feel asthough something is different too, but i do think it me jus wish for thinking. thank you again evry1 i do know ur right. & thanx for the baby dust & the good lucks.

[melipops]

Hi, Try to relax. It will happen in it's own time. Remember too much sex will cause the sperm count to not be as high so could have the effect of not getting pregnant. Get your partner to wear jocks not boxers. healthy spem are ones that are warm close to the body. If he smokes this can affect your fertliity chances. You should be on a preconception vitamin. You should be closest to your ideal weight if possible. Concentrate on making your body a temple for your baby to come and live in. Stop stressing it will happen for you. Good luck hope this helps

[thefebygirl]

well, i heard prego comes unexpected. so if you plan to have baby it might not work all the time, coz we do take stress on that basis. n get nervous. just let it gooo all the stress n planning stuffs, hv sex around your ovu days n then dont even think of or anything just enjoy ur BD n have fun. focus on somthing else, like ur interests :) You will see your unexpected BFP sooner alot of baby dusts:)

[kimberleychick2011]

im sooo glad im not going crazy! i have a 29day cycle last one being 1st july 2011, me and my partner had sex on 9th & 11th july, i started to ovulate on 12th july until today 19th, ive had cramping , tiredness and lower back pain, also head aches but i do wear glasses so im not classing that as a symptom! 5 days after unprotected sex i felt like i was getting my period? altho im not due on until the 29th july! i already have a 2yr old daughter, i cant remember any of this with her! im so confused :( , i remember with my daughter i woke up one morning and told her dad to go the shop for a test, it was positive,but it was just the knowing that something was different!