unsure of who the dad is

[funfitt99]

Ok So I totally messed up by sleeping with 2 guys in the same month and then I found out I was pregnant. I just wanted to get some feedback on my specific situation. So my lmp was dec 6 I slept with my ex on dec 8 and dec 9 then the following weekend on the dec 16 and dec 17. about 2 weeks later on dec 29th I slept with this guy I had been talking to for a while. on Jan 8 I found out I was pregnant. My periods are always very regular every 24-26 day cycles. According to ovulation calendars I was fertile the weekend I slept with my ex. I got an ultra sound done on Jan 10 and they results came back that I was just under 5 weeks which would make the baby my ex's and the 29th would probably of been too late in my cycle to get pregnant anyways right? and even if it was the latter guy could I have passed a pregnancy test that soon after intercourse with him?

[funfitt99]

I totally understand how stressful this is! I told my ex I was pregnant, b/c me and him have experienced 3 pregnancies together, 2 we lost and 1 is our beautiful son, so I kind of automatically assumed it was his, but now I am unsure and scared to tell my guy friend, I really don't want to mention anything to him unless I think there is a chance it is his... I can't wait to get to my OB and get a better answer on how far along I am and everything. Please let me know what happens in the future! At least we are not alone
:)

[Jellybean16]

Same thing happened to me! :/ its very frustrating. My lmp was 11-05-11 and i had sex with my ex on 11-14-11 then on the 20,21,&23 i had sex with my bf we were getting back together. And on dec 9 i found out i was pregnant. I have a regular cycle of 31 days. And according to my cycle i was fertile from the 19 to the 23rd! I got an US on jan 3 and the doc said the baby was about 6 wks so i think its from my bf. But i cant be 100% sure and this is very STRESSING!!:/

[Lesley27]

The only way to know 100% for sure is a paternity test... i would also let the guys know that there is a chance that they are or are not the father just incase it isnt the guy you are thinking it would be as that would be aweful to find out after baby arrives.... i found out i was pregnant 9 days after i ovulated and swore there was a slight line the 8th but made myself think it was in my head... then 10 days was a for sure non mistakable dark line... so you definitly could get a positive that early....it all depends on how fast implantation occurs and unless you were tracking ovulation yourself there isnt a for sure day you that you can say 100% you ovulated.....so to be on the safe side you need to do a paternity test for sure...good luck

[jnene24]

it's not true that you couldn't come up positive that soon. I had sex on November 11th took a pregnancy test the 18th n it came up positive. .. I went to the dr 3 days later he was shocked that I knew so soon. he said I was 10 days post ovulation which would make the conception date the 11th... as far as you measuring 5 weeks... that's adding up to your ex. good luck :o)

[baby_hopes]

Seems like it is your ex-boyfriends, It would deff be too early to tell from the 29th to the 8th :)