I just recently went through the same thing with. My husband he is also military. Being pregnant does not help these feelings but the only thing that made things better for me was actually telling him I wanted to go home. We had a long convo and he told me he would try harder and he really wanted to be there to see the progress of my pregnancy and his first child. Good luck and I hope everything works out
Thank you ladies you guys really made me feel better. i guess i just had a moment lol he's been better now since Sunday. We just need to work on stuff especially now that i am so emotional.
@dollface im at fayetteville.
Where at in NC? I'm in NC as well :)
I know how u feel I'm lonely too in new area away from family stay t home mum n wife . I used to nag my husband alot on weekends he got Better n don't play games much anymore but I also thinking about joining a fitness class or something to get out n meet people just havnt done it yet I agree if u religon that can help j read Quran n think about purpose of life n it calms me I also think about what I do have n sone people may wish for n then feel lucky xx
*And if you read the bible at all, not implying that you should be religious at all, but that always puts me at ease! It gives me other things to think about, not worry, and helps me to find ways to improve everything. I hope all of our advice helps:)
I know what its like to have a military man, so I'm right there with ya! Lol I am currently looking for a new job because we just recently moved, so I'm home alone for countless hours. When my hubby is home though, he's very adamant about spending time with just me and bonding even more. Your hubby should do the same! If he doesn't respect your feelings, and take.your problems as his own as well, he needs to start. That's what marriage is! You, the both of you, are one now. Make him understand that:)
I understand what your going through....its really hard when you have no one there and being pregnant is sooo hard....the father of my child is hardly here either and its like I just feel so down sometimes...the thing that gets me through is thinking about the baby...just take time out of the day find a quiet moment and just focus on the baby...it really helps to get through everything...if you need to talk feel free to...plenty of us understand what your going through.
Men are really,really slow lol.dont feel like its nagging if you have some issues burdening you feel free to let him know.why should you go on in silence stressed out.i sounded just like you when i first got married,felt very alone untill i decided if i have a issue we both have one lol. If nothing changes then you know where his priorities are.happy wife happy life girl.good luck!!