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I have no one else to talk to about this. And my family is the last people i want to talk too about my problems. they don't know im pregnant yet and its not cuz im hiding it but i want to wait ill im in the second trimester. Im married and lately i feel like my husband is paying less and less attention to me. he's been saying what i take it as mean and rude comments to me. im a stay at home wife so im stuck at home all the time. i have no friends and no family. i moved all the way to nc from ca for his job he's in the military. the only person i have is him and not like i need more. I know he's tired after work and i try not to nag but during the weekend is it so hard for him to spend some time with me. during the weekdays he pays him games and i let him i don't really care. its just getting harder and harder for me to be here without no interaction with anyone. I've tried talking to him . im just getting sick of it and i want to go back home but i know it'll be way harder with out him. am i asking to much? Idk if im over reacting or its my crazy emotions but i just want to be notice more. in sorry ladies its all long im just feeling really down. thank you for listening.
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I just recently went through the same thing with. My husband he is also military. Being pregnant does not help these feelings but the only thing that made things better for me was actually telling him I wanted to go home. We had a long convo and he told me he would try harder and he really wanted to be there to see the progress of my pregnancy and his first child. Good luck and I hope everything works out
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Thank you ladies you guys really made me feel better. i guess i just had a moment lol he's been better now since Sunday. We just need to work on stuff especially now that i am so emotional.
@dollface im at fayetteville.
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Where at in NC?  I'm in NC as well :)
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I know how u feel I'm lonely too in new area away from family stay t home mum n wife . I used to nag my husband alot on weekends he got Better n don't play games much anymore but I also thinking about joining a fitness class or something to get out n meet people just havnt done it yet I agree if u religon that can help j read Quran n think about purpose of life n it calms me I also think about what I do have n sone people may wish for n then feel lucky xx
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*And if you read the bible at all, not implying that you should be religious at all, but that always puts me at ease! It gives me other things to think about, not worry, and helps me to find ways to improve everything. I hope all of our advice helps:)
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I know what its like to have a military man, so I'm right there with ya! Lol I am currently looking for a new job because we just recently moved, so I'm home alone for countless hours. When my hubby is home though, he's very adamant about spending time with just me and bonding even more. Your hubby should do the same! If he doesn't respect your feelings, and take.your problems as his own as well, he needs to start. That's what marriage is! You, the both of you, are one now. Make him understand that:)
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I understand what your going through....its really hard when you have no one there and being pregnant is sooo hard....the father of my child is hardly here either and its like I just feel so down sometimes...the thing that gets me through is thinking about the baby...just take time out of the day find a quiet moment and just focus on the baby...it really helps to get through everything...if you need to talk feel free to...plenty of us understand what your going through.
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Men are really,really slow lol.dont feel like its nagging if you have some issues burdening you feel free to let him know.why should you go on in silence stressed out.i sounded just like you when i first got married,felt very alone untill i decided if i have a issue we both have one lol. If nothing changes then you know where his priorities are.happy wife happy life girl.good luck!!
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