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778012 tn?1304901886

Losing the baby

I just got back from my ultrasound.  The baby's heartrate dropped from 93 bpm to about 60 bpm since last Tuesday.  He didn't grow, so I have been told a miscarriage is inevitable.  Probably within the next week or two.  This is my second loss, but even though the last was two years ago I still remember the first so well that I know how much this is going to hurt, physically and emotionally.  Good luck to all of you ladies, God bless you and your little ones.
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You are a strong woman and I hope many blessing come your way and for your family. I cant even imagine the ache you are going through. I hope you dont have to ever repeat it again. GOD BLESS and tons of hugs!
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778012 tn?1304901886
Thank you for everyone's well wishes.  I'm doing ok right now.  It took 4 weeks to actually miscarry (6/6/10) and i've had to go back every week to check my Hcg levels to make sure they are dropping...will have to keep doing that til they are negative.  Then, I will have some bloodwork done to see if there is anything going on that might be causing the miscarriages.  My husband and I will start trying again (with the help of Femara, hcg, and timed intercourse instead of the IUI for the first month or two) in August/september.  I am just begging God to please not make us wait another 2 years to get pregnant again, and to please not take the next one too.
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1064495 tn?1269816302
No words can express how sorry I am for your loss....God Bless.  
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im so sorry for your loss. how are you now? i lost my baby girl last june 24 and i know how hard it is for you. and same as yours its my 2nd time losing my little one. dont worry,, my prayers will be with you! God bless!
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893889 tn?1294276977
Hunnie Im so sorry this is happeneing to you again. I just misscarried last friday and it was devastating. I know what ur going through and I will be here if you need anyone to talk too. Please keep your head up. Ull be in my prayers
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I'm so sorry to hear this.  I just had a m/c at the end of Feb and it was awful and drawn out, too.
I know this will be so hard for you and I'll be praying for you.
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1105753 tn?1374287348
You are in my prayers. I'm so sorry.
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1273074 tn?1310634736
take care dear
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1024452 tn?1323708817
My prayers are with you right now!!  
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392430 tn?1382904781
I echo the women before me in saying I am so sorry that you are living this again. Be strong and take support where you can find it. ((hugs))
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1300808 tn?1280276224
im so sorry for and you family, i will be keeping you all in my prayers
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1057389 tn?1325465587
my heart aches for what you have to go through...yet again.
I hope you and your family heal well and are able to try again very soon
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1267932 tn?1353373594
i am so very sorry, thinking of you and your family!
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1065258 tn?1273784139
Im so so very sorry. I'll keep you in my prayers
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1278093 tn?1294320384
i'm so sorry....
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1099046 tn?1281009951
I am so sorry that you have to go through this again.  There are no words to make it any easier for you right now,  I know....  I went through it last year.  It is emotionally and physically draining!  My thoughts are with you.... Hopefully we will see you again on here soon!!

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