My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 4 years. We started dating when I was 14 and he was 16. We had one break up for 6 months over a year and a half ago. We got back together and have been happy! We got jobs and an apt. Then found out we are pregnant. I am 21 weeks day 3. We have had little fights about money and my hormones. I just get moody. I came to visit my mom and left him at home alone for three days. We got into a big fight tonight because he hasnt hardly had any conversation with me all week. I feel like I am losing him. I dont know what to do. I miss him so much. I realized I have been really moody and I never do anything for him but he does everything for me! He is pretty much convinced we are growing apart and that itll never be the same. How do I convince him to give me another chance? How do I tell him Im sorry and I need him here for me? Please help me.. FTM
Being preg should not be am excuse but you have to communicate... Me and my hubby been together for seven yrs and going on second child, it took alot to work things out... I was a mom and he had his free time but he has changed so much and hes never home after ten pm.... We live together but he wamts me to stay home til I give birth and the baby is atleast.two months or so... He does so much for us amd is my best friend!! When we fight he tells me I cant just shut down I have to tell him how I feel.. And hes right... He knows im moody and if something else is wrong... U just meed to have a serious talk if not ur relationship will sink!! Goodluck
I have been with my boyfriend since I was 17 n him 21. We had our first daughter when I was 19... we have had sooo many ups n downs over our 10yrs together n pregnant with our 2nd daughter. What I have learned is. Don't stress so much, everything will work out in the end, go on weekly 'dates' for coffee or have DVD night n talk about nothing important ;) have your weekly time apart too. Dustin will sit on the Xbox after work n I will have a friend over in our bedroom n talk about baby stuff, tell him everyday how thankful you are he helps you but also help him out too! Take it in turns to make each other dinner, one dry n one wash up after, take an interest in his interests too. I even play zombies with him... badly but I try lol! Every relationship is different but they all take time, patience and sometimes walking away n screaming into a pillow so you don't smother them for grinding their teeth all night!! ;) lol
Breaking up at this stage could be devastating. I feel your pain.
You need to go to him and apologize even if you feel you right. Pregnancy can tear a good relationship apart (even marriages).
Explain to him that you'll try and sort things out. If possible go and see a counselor together.
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