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484470 tn?1226541095

Had a close call last night.

Well, last night hubby and I went to the hospital.  Chloe decided to have an extremely lazy day.  She barely moved at all, all day.  Scared me to death.  I normally wouldnt be so worried, but the night before hubby and I had a horrible fight and I was so upset.  He was drunk by the time I got home and everytime he drinks vodka, he is totally unmanagable!!!   All I did was turn his radio off and he got pi$$ed!!  I wanted to watch tv and he wanted to dance around acting stupid.  URGH!!   And when he goes off he calls and says a bunch of **** that he never means, but is so incredibly mean about me.  But anyways, sorry to get off subject.  But we went in last night to L&D and they did a nonstress test, and everything seemed to be ok they said.  Her heart rate was going up and down and I guess that is normal.  It made me nervous but i guess they are the experts.  I have another doctors appointment on Oct. 16th and I cant wait!  I am so sick of being pregnant.  I have been so miserable, but it will all be worth it when she decides to make her grand appearance!!
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Glad everything is ok.  
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489099 tn?1286220981
Glad to hear everything is okay. Goodness we are so close.
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408496 tn?1269603350
I am glad everything is okay!  I do know that they say babies tend to get less active towards the end of pregnancy, b/c they are running out of room to move, so try to keep that in mind (I know it will still scare you, as it would me).  My little guy hasn't slowed down on the moving yet, he is still very active!  
As for the DH - try to remember as I tell myself that he has "sympathy irritableness" lol and remember that your irritable to - and in all seriousness, just talk to DH about how you feel and let him know you are extra irritable and sensitive right now so he needs to have some sympathy for you.  I have to remind my DH that all time!
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449672 tn?1398394807
Glad you and Chloe are doing fine!! Hang in there,you only have a few weeks to go!

Try to ignore the hubby right now...that's the last thing you need,is being upset! Explain to him how much he hurts you by saying mean things.....men are just that way! They can and do say the meanest things,especially when the alcohol is doing the talking!! I am sure he doesn't mean any of it...probably doesn't remember have of what he said!

Babies do have a way of upsetting us....like you said,she was being lazy.....they seem to settle down the last few weeks....take advantage of it....she will be here soon,a yelling and a kicking! Lol......take care.
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