:'(

[ikyyy]

I know this may sound stupid but because of the miscarriage i recently had i feel so vulnerable with this pregnancy and terrified. My husband doesnt have much of a social life due to work and his boxing career. Today he went out for the first time in ages he went to his cousins house and i feel so jealous amd angry.. i feel like screaming at him like why did u go instead of sitting in with me.. its silly but i just feel terrible. Every twitch of pain i feel absolutely terrifies the life out of me and i need him !:'(

[luxejess93]

Don't feel bad I would react the exact same way. I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish you all the luck in the world with your little bundle of joy. Congrats :)

[ikyyy]

Thanks so much hunny.. im gonna try what u said and hope everything goes well xx

[BabyTurnip]

I think dopplers at home can be used at around 12weeks :( sorry.....i know its still early but make sure u take it easy, no excersizing, drink lots of water, take ur prenatal vitamins without fail and stay as calm as you can! :) just stay positive and what helped me a little (keeping in mind i never had a misscarige) i would sing a happy song to my baby and i would rub my tummy and talk to him. It helped a lot woth connections between us and to keep my mind off bad thoughts

[ikyyy]

I would get a doppler but i dont think it will do much cuz im only about 4weeks pregnant and i got pregnant 2 weeks after my miscarriage so i think thats whats causing me more anxiety.. when would i be able to use a doppler? Is it after the fetalis a certain age?

[shortimama123]

I had 2 miscarriages in 6 months back in 2011. I agree with turnip. Getting a fetal doppler with this pregnancy eased ALOT of anxiety! I'm now 20w 5d with an apparently healthy boy!

[BabyTurnip]

You should get yourself a doppler :) i know i never had a miscarrige but bcuz of my mom who lost the last two, i was paranoid! My hubby got the doppler and whenever i got anxious i would go and listen to his heart. Helped huge!!! Without it i would of went to the hospital every week! Its reasurring knowing you can check anyday anytime no matter what. I found mine on amazon for a good price :)

[shinieshoes]

I had 2 miscarriages in 3 years. I wish I could tell you it gets less nerve wrecking but it doesn't. I'm now 35 weeks with a healthy baby boy. Honestly you just have to take it day by day. Eventually it will get a little better. I still have my moments where I get extremely worried but then the little one will move and it makes me feel better. Can you not go with your hubby?