Not a pregnancy question, but need opinons.

[MamaBear96]

So my bestfriend told me her brother raped her twice when she went to visit him & her aunt. Once when she was 16 & once at 17. She's now 18. Both times I told her, call the police! She didn't want to. I still believed her cuz shes never lied & who lies about that? Well she said she wasn't talking to him ever again & I believed her cuz she was so serious about it. Well just recently she left home to live with her bf & didn't tell anyone so she got on fb, posted a status & her brother commentef on it saying he was worried & to call. She told him shed message him her number. So I was like huh?? Why would you ever talk to someone who raped you again?? Regardless of whether its family or not! Its wrong! I confronted her & she won't answer me so it makes me think she's lying. I'm starting to think the second time she told me was just for attention cuz she felt I was paying more attention to my bf then her. What do you ladies think? Would you thinm she's lying or did she just forgive him?

[JLewis12]

Wow I guess that's gud she finally told u ... But sounds like a frnd I wudnt b able to trust

[baby_love2014]

That was your choice. I told you mine :)

[MamaBear96]

Actually I do understand cuz I was raped at 15 by a friend & I've NEVER talked to them again! Don't talk something you don't know. & she finally told me

[baby_love2014]

Rape is rape. Lucky for you, you don't understand.  

[JLewis12]

How did u find out ??

[MamaBear96]

Having a friend rape you & a family member rape you is totally different cuz you grew up with your family &that's blood. Well she was lying like I thought. Thanks for you guyss reply

[baby_love2014]

I was in the same situation but it wasn't my brother.  It was a classmate. Didn't talk to him for a while but we  eventually made up and were even friends for a couple years. Every situation is different and you'll never understand someone's story because it didn't happen to you. Everyone handles situations differently. I chose to forgive.  

[PaytonFaith]

I would think she was lying. There is a thing called compulsive liars. People lie over pointless dumb stuff all the time. Why? Idk I ask myself the same question

[smhsince91]

Idk. Honestly I think she is lying or the encounters really happened but were consenual. Because if your brother truly raped you not once but twice I would forgive but never forget. I wouldnt talk to him or be around him.

[flowerbombnelly]

I was sexually molested by my older brother for years .. i didnt tell anyone till i had sex for the first time cus i was scared ... that guy whom i lost my virginity too took me to my mom n brother n confronted him about doing this my mom said she was guna press charges on my bro but i stoped her becuase altho i was only 16 wen i lost my virginity i forgave my brother n knew that if he went to jail he cuda died or gotten molested himself my mom told me i was wise n kind hearted for thinkin about my brother but she still had to press charges hes in jail now but before he lefti told him i forgave him cus if i didnt i would never been able to live a regualar life .. n that he will always b my brother my brother said he. Done wrong n hes happy he was forgivin .. i wouldnt trust him with my kids or any child alone dont get me wrong but i do forgive cus we r not perfect humans so mayb she forgave her brother ...