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363110 tn?1340920419

??? Same symptoms with second baby?

Ok, so With  TJ when I was about 20 days into my cycle I noticed that i had bloating as well as some tummy pain. Did any of you have the same symptoms with your second or third baby as your first?

I'm 24 days into my cycle and have a 31 day cycle so I took a test and it was bfn. I just want a little advice. my stomach has been bloated as well as sore. DH hopes I'm pregnant. I don't want to hear drama about being pregnant, but just advice.

thnx.
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290867 tn?1333569278
I'm with Babysience if you suspect you may be pregnant you should go to the lab and get blood work.(bloodtest)  Hope you get the results you want! Best of Luck!
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If you are on a medicine that can cause problems with a baby or pregnancy (birth defects) and need to know ASAP and it's not just a med you can quit then I suggest you go to a Dr and get a blood test.  These types of medication usually require you to be off of them for a month or so to make it safe to conceive without any risk to the baby.  You should talk to your doctor about your desire and timeline on ttc and see if there are any other meds you can take OR a birth control plan that is nearly full proof.  
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363110 tn?1340920419
Bio, also I'm PM'ing you.
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363110 tn?1340920419
We spent an hour texting (he's at work) and he said he's torn between trying now and  waiting. and our DH's are SO alike;. DH says "I'm not worried!" he also says that he doesn't want to try earlier than June (maybe April) TJ may be young but I think that since DH has been thru it he's more open to it. I'm just not gonna buy any condoms this next month! he can do it if he wants..... but knowing him as a guy..... it'll be too hard to hold back and P/O. UUUUGGGGHHHHH....... MEN

OH and I"ve gotta say, when I text him that I was bloated he said "baby belly?" WTF? We need to smack our guys silly!
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358971 tn?1330888975
hahah!! So sorry, men can be frustrating but it IS slightly humorous to hear your story! My dh is the EXACT same way. He said last night after I said "i haven't started yet, he said "that's weird" and I said "I'm NOT pregnant" and he said "i'm NOT worried" and we repeated the same thing 3 times !!! It was funny b/c i was trying to calm him down and he apparently didn't need calming. But when i ask him if he wants to start ttc earlier than June he says, no...lets just wait! WTF??? I started on him about ttc 2 years ago and THANK GOD b/c its taken 2 years to get him to agree to a date that's STILL 5 months out!! hehehe
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561451 tn?1257476350
my first and third were the same, since they were both girls.  my sons pregnancy was far different as far as pregnancy symtoms.
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363110 tn?1340920419
thanks ladies. my problem is that I'm on a medicine that can cause problems with a baby or pregnancy (birth defects) so I need to know ASAP and it's not just a med I can quit.

Bio~ Long time no talk! lol. :) who knows maybe we'll find out the verdict at the same time. as of today, the tummy pain is still there, the bloating is still there...the CM is still there.....

it's actually really annoying! see.... usually with AF I get MAD tummy cramps that lead to..... well...... uhhh.... to be straight about it, the runs. TMI! so I have no clue because the cramps usually start 2 days or so before the other tummy issues.

DH is actually happy about the fact that I might be. he keeps saying, "It doesn't matter, I'm fine with it", and rubbing my tummy.
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isn't that the best thing you can hear?  esp. considering last time he basically claimed his life was ruined. Last night I cornered him in the kitchen with my mom and said, " if you don't mind why don't we just stop using condoms?"

his excuse was that he's fine with TRYING in June or July, but not truly trying now. ugh.....men

And don't even get me started on cervical position...... it didn't work out for me last time..... so I'm not relying on it this time.
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568659 tn?1256139982
My pregnancy so far has been completely different than my first. All of my symptoms came VERY early and went away pretty quickly with Noah and with this baby it took a while for them to kick in and they are all sticking around (for good I think).
I didn't even think I was prego this time because I just didn't "feel" pregnant.
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414635 tn?1272217693
Even though i was getting bfn (and af was 4 days late) I knew I was pregnant because I got really dizzy and off balance, the same as I had the first time i was preggo and suspected days before af was due. Probably way to early for you to test yet, try to be patient for another week. Also for me a few days after AF I got absoulty exhausted for a couple of days...that happened both times
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358971 tn?1330888975
hey girl!! long time no talk (your arky friend)!!!!
I don't have any advice but am thrilled to hear you might be preggo again!! I'm currently 4 days later (or six, depending on when you count "Af" as late) and still bfn....

I can't wait to hear your verdict!!!
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689265 tn?1251130087
yeah, i had morning sickness with all of mine. if you suspect you are, keep testing every 3 days until you get a bfp or your period.
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