depressed/overwhelmed.

[sulma91]

Blah I just feel like I wana cry. I feel like I cant do anything right. Nobody helps me clean my house and it pisses me off. I have my bf and his sister living with me his sister cant clean after herself shes so dirty and discusting ah like I dont know maybe im just overwhelmed or I dont know waah. Im 32w3d. Im sad. What should I doooo! It seems like I clean evwryday and no matter what I do it dont stay clean and im always chasingbafter my 2 year old. Ahhbh :(

[sulma91]

You ladies are so right! I need to put my foot down and start saying it how it is. And set some rules. I need to think of myself and my babies! Imma make a cleaning schedule and sit her down and my bf and they are gona follow them dammit. Im so sick of it! Thank you very much it really does help!

[BabyTurnip]

If shes old enough to be out all the time with her bf and make food then shes old enough to move out and live on her own. She needs to get a job if she doesnt has one yet and either get her own placr or start paying her stay at ur place and her share of food. She needs to learn the hard and seriously having a pooping dog is not good for preggo momma and little baby. She either trains it or its gone its very simple actually. And once the baby is born do u really want to be taking care of two babies ur hubby his sister and her dogs mess? She needs to grow up n move out. If not since ur paying for ur place rules will need to be applied just like if she lived with her mom. If she wont listen then she out.

[mommygg]

Then try talking to her tell her those are unhealthy conditions for u and ur baby and that dog I would throw him outside once she left maybe she will get the hint I went through a similar situation with my sis n law but when it was time to clean I would go knock on her door and tell her its cleaninv time regardless if she was sleeping theres not worse then clean after another grown *** person!

[sulma91]

And I dont really want to be rude cuz its my bfs sister. And my brother has stayed with us before but unlike his sister my brother actually helped me clean sometimes I would wake up from a nap and my brother cleaned the whole house for me. :(

[sulma91]

Ive tried talking to my bf but he dont listen. He just stops the conversation right away. Like its little things like she will make a cup of coacoa and leave coacoa powder on the counter and her mug there with a spoon in there. And then she uses a different cup every single time and the dishes pile up and she expects me to do it. Or she will cook something and just eat and leave it all there. And then she goes through like 4 towels in 1 day. And they all disappear then when there are no clean towels she will pick up allbthe dirty ones from her room and throw em right outside her room like telling me oh these are dirty wash em. Its like um no I dont think sp. Then her dog poops everywhere!!! Which is not healthy its just discusting. Shes always gone with her bf and expects me and my bf to watch her dog. No its not my responsibility.ugh. and when she is home and she knows imma start cleaning the house she walks in her room and wont come out til im done. Im in so much pain after I get done cleaning the house. I should only be cleaning after my 2 year old son and bf not her. Im just stressed out. I feel like imma go into early labor. Sorry for just this long message thing but I needed to vent.

[mommygg]

Try talking to ur bf tell em its all to much for u that he needs to talk to his sister. Im sure the last thing he wants is for u to stress while ur this far along

[Combs7]

Tell her she's an adult & to clean after herself or get out!