Feel like I was kind of bashed about my baby shower post, honestly came here because my family didn't understand the reason why I felt the way I felt about it. Its just really hard keeping it together lately, the father of my children is no longer with us, and I'm 20 raising my babies without him all i have is pictures of him , this is a day I wish I could share with him but I can't. I just didn't want anymore stress put on me than I already have, having to worry about wwho's child will knock the food table over, or break something. I didn't mean to sound selfish about the situation, but you'd think they'd work something out seeming that I need all the support I can get because I'll never have the chance to have the support of their father again. I've just been really depressed since the post, I felt ganged up on.