at least say Thanks!

[Jazzylovesgato]

My bf works he's tired ii knw. I work too I cook clean n take care of our 7 month old. I'm also pregnant 24w 3d. My bfs off sat& Sunday. He promised me to go to the movies yesterday n he didn't. Ok I understoood once since he's nt working today he said we going out bt now he's saying he tired I been uup since 5 am this morning washing cleaing kitchen bathrooms mopping everything. I haven't even sat dwn to rest. I live with my MIL & wen she comes home n my bfs here he's like ohh mom u shud go n rest we'll clean bt I end up doing mysself with no help. I Thank him for everything. Litterally everything he buys me a donut I'm appreciative like thank u babe. Bt ALL I want is a THANK YOU. Tht wud make my whole day. He's right now taking a nap while I'm still washing n folding clothes. I get tired too. Wen I say my back n feet hurt he says "mine too". I been having back problems I fell at work the other day n I'm still up and about doing my wife n mommy duties. Bt in my bfs eyes I'm never tired.

[Jazzylovesgato]

I knw all I do is cry. Wen he promised me yesterday the movies he had been telling me the whole week oh we going on a date. So sunday comes around I get ready all cute n cleaned in the morning so it wudnt be dirty. N he just says no. like really I just cried n he started telling me like stop crying u being dramatic. I cant deal with it. Im so unappreciated here. I wish he wud tell me oh babe go rest like he does to his mom. I do let him knw tht im tired wen pregnant u cant help bt be tired. My back is killing me nt no one cares. I do my best my very best to be a good wife I keep up with my stuff bt he dnt as a husband to appreciate his wife. He expects me to do everything n nt be tired. I just dnt knw wht to do to get thru to him

[Kate037]

I'm starting to understand what you mean. I was in the hospital earlier this weekend because I thought it was baby time and I was there from 1 am to 6 pm, came home and did laundry but took it out of the dryer, put it on the bed and when I sat down to fold it I fell asleep. Hubby wakes me up and  says'what am I supposed to do with this' like HELLO what do you think?!?! I just burst into tears and let him have it. You have to let him know that even though he has a job he goes to, he has a job at home too. You work 24/7 not only as a baby making facility but as a homemaker and a mom  and he needs to pull his weight. Some women are happy to do all the work while he goes, makes money and comes home and sits on his as*, but not every woman wants to live like that. Speak your mind.

[Tay9662]

Um tell him that :) be like your not the only one with problems and tired, and he's not the one taking care of a baby while pregnant tell him it would be better if he would appreciate the things you do

[tafty92]

Maybe sit down with him and explain to him how you feel and that you need some support. Hope things turn out well for you!