question, exchanging information with other parent

[thickm]

okay heres my question and i know it shouldnt go here but all of yall are my friends! my husbands baby mama called ranting and raving earlier because she wants my husbands cell phone number and we wont give it to her! does anyone know if by law we have to give her his cell number??? she has my cell #, the house, his parents and his sisters! she told me she is tired of talking to me and demanded his number which i still wouldnt give her! my husband has no communication with her because everytime she talks to him about their son she makes up random stories like they are sleeping together blah blah blah! so if she has a problems she can call me or his family! she made it this way by her random stories and her late night prank calls......she gets drunk and calls the cell 24/7 private and we know its her cause she always talks **** when she calls! personally i just feel like we dont have to give her his cell # when she has other ways to call if something is wrong! call me a ***** but when she says she is sleeping with my husband and calling my baby a ****** baby then she dont get that privilige! what do yall think??????

[JoyRenee]

Like the other person said she sounds like she is harassing y'all and you can report her for that. Get copies of phone records, write down the times she calls drunk, etc. She doesn't need his cell number, that is ridiculous.

[30something13]

Oh and there are web sites for divorced parents that has the childs info and dr visits, activites, report cards, you can corrispond and lots of other things as well as a place to keep court documents.

[30something13]

legally the only phone number she should have is his home number but also legally he is the one that needs to talk with her no matter what she says! He is the parent and the courts will not see that as a good thing if he does not talk with her.

Now if she causes problems he can limit the calls to emergencies or none emergency calls set at a certain time. But he can say if you are going to talk about other things I will have to hang up. He shoudl not even resonf to other things and just say is there saomething you need concerning ****** (the babies name)

If she will not stop then he neds to record it and he can get her for telephone harrasment and show the court he is willing to discuss the child just not other things. I have seen children taken away from one parent and given to another becasue of imature behavior like that.

But really I can not express enough that he needs to be the one to talk. ALso some courts will tell parents to talk via email so there is written words and can be taken to court, except for emergency calls.