Same my man feels weird what i do tho i just start playin with him so he cant say no lmaoo
Try going the adult store n let him pick out a few things he might like that he wants used on him lol Like tasty lube or smell goods for a good massage to get him in the mood
Lol im in the same boat. Or he's in the mood when I'm not. Then the last few times he only lasted like a minute leaving me completely unsatisfied. I dunno what to say really, but you're not alone.