venting

[nuna0601]

Getting so stressed and frustrated my mom's making me so mad I don't do anything all I do is go to school and work so I never really get to see her but when I do all she does is have something bad to say like me and my boyfriend aren't going to work out and just being extra negative for no reason  . I live with her for now until the 8th when I get my own apartment but I just don't wanna be here anymore.and she wants to talk about me and everything when she's NEVER home and just leaves my little brother and sister at home by themselves ALL the time now that she's found her a new boyfriend and last night she was just talking **** about me that him while I was sitting right there like if I wasn't but I didn't Wanna get into it with her so I let it go. And than this morning my little sister told me that my mom was complaining to her that I'm so ungrateful and that since I'm pregnant and have a job they took most of her food stamps away and blames me like it my fault. Which pisses me off because I haven't said anything bad to her and every single time she needs something I give it to her every single time she asks for money to help her. I just don't even wanna talk to her

[nuna0601]

Thank you both

[luxah]

Sorry about your mom, hopefully when you move out she'll realize that you were more than what she said about you and apologize. As for the food stamps, unless she contacted them about your job and being pregnant then they would not know about it. Everytime my mom got a job or my dad did or when my boyfriend at the time and I moved out she had to update it on the system. They didn't automatically know, theres prolly a different reason why her food stamps were lower or whatever her problem is. She prolly used some and forgot or something. My mom also said the samething about my boyfriend at the time and I not working. We were together for 7 straight years before getting married (had to wait till we graduated highschool) but was all hyper and hippy excited for my brother and his girlfriend at the time who dated for 3 months, got married, and then are now divorcing after 5 years of marriage. So my advice, if you love him and he loves you and you both are 100% on things and do things for eachother out of love and respect. Don't worry to much of what she or others say, I did and it was exhausting and so much unneeded stress. Good luck.

[FreyjaCasper]

I can completely understand! I moved in with my.mom when I was three months pregnant with my first child after my husband decided he wanted a divorce. It was ok until I told her I wanted to move back to the state I came from to live with her. Then my daughter was born and she took advantage of me being at home and guilt tripped me into watching her three kids (one of whom is special needs and requires constant attention) which would be fine if I didn't have a now crawling child getting into everything. I run all her errands, children's doctors appointments and dentist appointments, grocery shopping etc. She works 8 hours a day sitting at a computer comes home and watches Netflix on her phone until she falls asleep. And she has the nerve to tell me I don't clean enough and gets mad when dinner isn't ready when she gets home from work. Well I got pregnant visiting my fiancé back home (eight weeks now) and I'm leaving next weekend and never looking back. Just keep your chin up and block out the negativity <3