thank you!

[mommyinapril202012]

To whoever reported the "abortion" post that was on here over an hour ago.  I was scrolling through post and came across that one and I had to put my phone down.  I don't let the " am I pregnant" post bother me anymore, but there is a time and place for everything.  Posting questions about aborting a pregnancy to women who are giving the miracle of life is just wrong.  Especially to those who have a hard time getting pregnant!  So thank you to whoever reported that post, hopefully we wont have to come across that topic again.

[mz_sapphire]

I totally agree with alot of u mainly ashleigh529. If u dont like someone choice dont comment or read. This is one of the best app i came by. There isnt alot of rude people who talk crap to u cause they dont like ur choice and i love that about this one. It would truly suck if this one turned out that way.

[Starzabove9]

Wonderfully stated ashleigh!

[Ashleigh529]

Everyone can have their own opinion, we live in a world that allows us to voice how we feel. I personally think a women's right to abort a baby is 100% her choice and will always support any1 and everyone for making their own decision.  It hurts me just as much to see a child be born to an addict who will neglect and abuse their child, or a child that was conceived during a violent rape, or a wonen who doesnt want kids. Yes there adoption but how many kids live in Foster homes and are kicked to the streets at 18 because no 1 adopted them. How many kids suffer from terrible birth defects and diseases that are un treated because of careless moms?? If an abortion is not for u than i totally understand but lets not make ppl feel theyre less of a person for their decisions.

[danigirl01]

Everything these days is so controversal. There is one subject that has stood true to this since Roe vs Wade. It will never change. My suggestion is this, if you know "that" subject is being discussed and you believe it is "inappropriate"...... Don't read it. Others may be on here reading, to afaid to ask what she asked and those who commented on her post may not of only.helped her.... But a handful of other girls/woman. Great job ladies and thank you! <3

[NicoleW09]

Anytime you feel a post is rude or judgemental, feel free to report the post to the mods. You can do so by emailing ***@****, clicking the contact us post at the bottom (please remember to include links to the posts in question as it helps our mods out greatly), or by simply hovering over the right side and clicking report.

Posts will often be moved or removed if they are miscategorized or found to be offensive. However, abortion is as Ashelen stated, an appropriate topic for this forum since it is a pregnancy forum.

[Rachel_croft]

How to we report this judgemental post.

[Ashelen]

Whether we like it or not,  abortion is a legitimate pregnancy topic. All questions regarding pregnancy are welcome here and we cannot base what is welcome or not on the personal feelings of some members versus others.  No one enjoys discussing abortion,  even people who are provided choice. Look at it this way,  every woman on here who is seeking information about abortion is an opportunity to save a life by supporting her and educating her about the long term life consequences of abortion.  By showing compassion and support I myself have helped more than a few women choose not to abort over the years.  So it's unfortunate if you're offended,  but please feel free not to read or respond to things that upset you.

Best wishes,
Co - Community Leader Ashelen

[Stacey91]

You do that !! :) ..and I doubt it was taken off .. it was probs just moved to a diff forum because some one got 'upset' I agree with heatherm4 I know who you are talking about ! that was a happy ending.. this is one of the more active forums its easier to get answers and sometimes people dont no there are other ones :S no biggy ! she was still pregnant at the end of the day.. I like to try and help people.. not make them feel bad !

[mommyinapril202012]

I totally disagree there are other forums for that but that's OK if you guys enjoy that topic there obviously was a reason why that post was taken off.  I an going to stick to my usual forum where this stuff doesn't come up.

[Heatherm4]

There's actually someone on here that posted about not knowing what to do and because of us all...she is indeed still pregnant and keeping her baby. Sometimes good things come out of it and I agree with kitkat...they are pregnant and looking for advice. It might be a hurtful topic to some but it's very much a scary reality for others. They just need guidance not judgement.

[Carly1306]

By reporting the post it just gets moved to the correct forum. When someone comes on looking for an answer to a question, they're looking for advice and support and because they don't know the forum they don't know who else goes on here and where to post. So pregnancy - because they are pregnant in the case of that post seems like the normal place to post it. It's not their fault.

I answered a post, might have actually been that one about a girl considering abortion. I'm completely against abortion and in the middle of going through a miscarriage after TTC for a long time, and as much as it hurts I still offered advice to the girl. There's no need to 'have a go at people' and they didn't know they were posting in a forum where people would judge and be horrible about it all.