Okay I am 21 and the mother of a very precious 2 year old little girl. I had a period on the 21st of October and then about a week after my period stopped, I had very light spotting. It lasted for about 3-4 days then disappeared. Well, it;s Novemebr 20th now and according to mymonthly, should of started my period on the 18th and so far nothing. Me and hubby are trying to conceive and we actually do it about 3 times a day, I know that sounds bad lol, but I have been eating a whole lot, im bloated, been having slight cramps thats been there since idk, 2 weeks ago, then I am so tired its crazy. I also get nauseous also. Ive took 3 hpts, all were negative, went to my ob almost 2 weeks ago, she said itd be too early to tell so i was just wondering, when can i test and get a postiive result, i cramp mainly on my left side.