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419964 tn?1333301906

Is it common......

Back in december i had a pregnancy scare i thought i was pregnant but it wasnt. at that time i wasnt even thinking about having a baby but after i got a negitive i felt disappointment and wanted to have one. anyone else? anyone know why? just curious,
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419964 tn?1333301906
yeah its hard raising a child especially this day in age when gas prices are outragoues  as it is prices are going way up on everything. lifes tough especially those who live pay check to pay check its just gonna get worse. i was a virgin till i was 21 years old and that was my personal choice and im soo glad i waited. me and my siblings grew up with out are fathers, she still has my 16 almost 17 year old sister living at home and sure she has a nice car but she has to work her @$$ off to pay  it off. shes still paying it off. shes thinking about getting a second job. i think it totally sux having to see my mom work her @$$ off and have nothing really to show for it but us 4 children. im not judging anyone here. i just think a 16 would have more sense to finish school etc.. but thats just me.
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384896 tn?1335294331
My mother got pregnancy with me when she wa 15, and turned 16 a few weeks after I was born.
Luckily my grandparents took very good care of her aswell as myself.
But also because of that, I dunno my real father, and I grew up poor because she did finally move out, she didn't have that much money rolling in.

I think girls that are 15... 16... 17 TRYING to get pregnant is very ignorant and thoughtless of them.

I'm 18, gunna be turning 19 a few weeks after my baby's born, and I KNOW that this is gunna make my future very very difficult.
I don't really REGRET getting pregnant, but if it wasn't an accident, I know that right now wouldn't have been the "Time" for junior to be introduced to the world just yet.

But people are gunna do what people are gunna do.
Just think before yah act is all I'm saying.

My mother never did, and she has 5 kids now, ALL of us were unplanned.
Cuz like I said, she has me at 15.
Had my sister Darcee at 17.
My brother Timothy at almost 19.
My sister Autumn at I think 24.
And my brother Damien at I think 28 er 29.

So yeah.
I know I won't be having another till I'm well into my 20's.
lol
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187316 tn?1386356682
Yeah almost forgot then I checked the test like an hour later to see if a line magically appeared even though your not supposed to read them out of the 10 minute window just so I could be like "take that you stupid test for giving me a -"... but it was still negative and I showed it nothing.
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187316 tn?1386356682
Yes. That is so weird. I'm one Mirena after having Aspen and I lately I have been feeling all kinds of prego symptoms and I kept thinking in my head... no period while breastfeeding... had a period after Mirena was inserted... spotting a week ago... nausea... blah blah blah. I was like OMG what if I am pregnant again (since I guess with Mirena you are supposed to use a condom for 3 months after but I only used one for a month and a half after cause I didn't know). Anyways, took a pregnancy test and was FREAKING out and then I got a negative and I was kinda bummed. Which is silly because the worse possible thing that could happen to me is for me to get pregnant again. Honestly I would have to give the baby up for adoption. But yeah I was kinda bummed... something about that little - makes me feel un-special... it think its the let down when you build something up that makes you bummed because really I don't want to be pregnant again for a long, LONG time.
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My mom got pregnant at 16 and OMG! Things were totally screwed up. She got married at 16, too, because she was pregnant. My father found her banging my brother on the changing table one night becuase he wouldn't stop crying. Luckily he was okay, but COME ON! Yeah, an older person can lose control, too, but she was like this our entire lives.

Anyway, to answer your question! YES! I've thought I was preggo before and when I got a negative I was super bummed. It's happened to me many times. And that's why I've got my girls! LOL! Because after the negatives I wanted to try.
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419964 tn?1333301906
im also asking because im seeing 16 year olds wanting to have a baby, at 16 years old i didnt have a boyfriend nor was i thinking of having a baby. my mother had me and my twis sister at 17 her parents kicked her out. she had to scrap by.then a year and 4 months later had my brother. she had to give up soo much. she dont regret anything but if she didnt have us im sure she woulda had a completly differant life.
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