I got a.....

[Praying4MiniMe]

BFN!!! I'm so sad! Why haven't I started AF yet? What is wrong with my body? Any suggestions? Maybe I will retest on the 13th like I said earlier....I even had dreams that I got a positive! I will keep you all updated!

[Praying4MiniMe]

thank you so much, I need all the prayers I can get! :) bless you and goodnight!

[Praying4MiniMe]

thank you so much, I need all the prayers I can get! :) bless you and goodnight!

[kris777]

I am heading off to bed now, but please let me know what happens:)  I will say some prayers for you!

[Praying4MiniMe]

Okay great, thank you!

[kris777]

Honestly I have never used that one and don't know anything about it.  The one I used was called Walgreens Digital Test (compared to e.p.t.).  The cheaper ones I used before that were from the Dollar Store so those two are the only ones I can attest to.

[Praying4MiniMe]

What do you think about clearblue digital tests? They any good??

[kris777]

I don't blame you, lol:)  I know the waiting game is sooooo hard, but hang in there and keep us posted!  Try to relax and destress with something you enjoy.  Taking a nice bath always helps me:)

[Praying4MiniMe]

I know, I guess I'm just looking for answers. I will wait until the 13th and get a digital test. Maybe walgreens cuz every girl thats used one ended up with a positive result, so I'll be lame and superstitous. lol.

[kris777]

It's really hard to say because I definitely don't want to give you false hope, but I would think there is a chance.  Some people I know have had light cramping on and off throughout their whole pregnancy.  I would wait until the 13th, use first morning urine and a digital test.  If still a negative and no period I would definitely get a blood test.  Sorry--that probably wasn't much help:(

[Praying4MiniMe]

I believe that implantation would have been nearly 3 1/2 weeks ago. would I still be cramping from that? It was worse last week, now its just kind of annoying. What do you really think? Your personal opinion....do you think there is a chance I could be pregnant? I mean, i was late last month (8 days) but I'm going on day 12 this month...what is your honest opinion????  

[kris777]

I had cramping on Nov. 5-6 but no period, which I thought was VERY strange.  Plus I didn't even spot or anything--I mean nothing!  Then I ended up preggo.  Looking back now, I am positive that was implantation.  You definitely don't have to spot at all to have implantation and could still be pregnant.  It seems you have signs since you have been cramping some, but no period.  They say it could take up to 14 days after implantation to show up positive on a test and that was what happened with me.............

[Praying4MiniMe]

I've had cramping on and off, not severe like a period though. No bleeding whatsoever, not even spotting.

[kris777]

I really would try not to worry too much because stress itself can screw with your period.  I would wait until the 13th if you can--I know it's hard:)  Have you had cramping, but no period???

[Praying4MiniMe]

Im not sure if I should buy one asap or if I should wait until the 13th....i'm started to question if I am pregnant or not, but if I'm not, then what could be wrong with me???

[kris777]

I know exactly what you mean--they are really expensive!  I used a cheap off brand and got four negative tests over several weeks and on Thanksgiving I spent the money and bought a digital one that said pregnant.  I just had the feeling I was pregnant since Nov. 5th but it didn't show on a test until Thanksgiving.  I really didn't have any period to look for because I quit my pill on Oct. 20th (in the middle of my cycle) and never even got another period and was pregnant!  My body was telling me and my other half thought I was just crazy, then I got a positive:)  I got the Walgreens brand and it was two for $14 or something like that.

[Praying4MiniMe]

I used Fact plus (both times)...but I think when the snow clears up I am going to go out and buy the digital kind...so darn expensive though. I'm gonna stick with the 13th unless I get really impatient again, lol. you would think that from the 5th to the 9th it would show a positive already. Anyways, how long did it take you to get a positive and how many negatives did you get??

[kris777]

I think there is such a thing as bad tests so I would be thinking the same thing!  If you only used the same type of test I would buy a complete different brand and try it.  The one that finally told me was digital and actually said pregnant or not pregnant............I liked that one because the other ones with the lines can be confusing!  I would still have hope if I were you because you never know--everyone is different and your body could just take longer for the hormone to produce enough to create that positive you're looking for.  Hang in there!

[Praying4MiniMe]

By the way, Is it possible to get a BAD batch of tests??????  or I am really reaching for answers....???

[Praying4MiniMe]

still no AF yet, so I'm thinking that i have the next two days to start, otherwise I'm making an appt. I am just sick to my stomach thinking about what could be wrong with me. I literally gagged three times today. I don't know what to think anymore....My period has always been like clock work and last month my AF was 8 days delayed and now its 11 days delayed.... what is that about??? Blah! I don't know anymore! Help!

[krissyy]

i read that book all summer before i started trying to conceive!  it's the most helpful, informative book ever!  i love it!  that's also how i learned to chart.  i recommend it to everyone!  i'm glad that you are a fan :-)

[BrandiJ]

I didnt mean that to come off as...idk..not rude of cocky so i hope you didnt take it like that. i have been tracking my period for 3 years now. since october of 03, my first miscarriage and the only time it has EVER went over 34-35 days is when i have been pregnant...so...thats the one time i wasnt pg it went over 35 days...

[Tasia32]

I'm so sorry Praying4MiniMe I think you should get a blood test done. :-D

[tarajanes]

I wasnt trying to be funny,but just helping out with confusion of dates..ive also lost babys,so you understand how it works forget about internet reading load of rubbish,each site will tell you somthing different,which i imagine you noticed.i highly recommend a book called "taking charge of your fertility"excellent book,my doc recommended it.im so sorry for your looses,

praying4minime
anything can happen.some womens body dont produce hormones until couple weeks after period,as you probably read some for weeks,will keep my fingers crossed...

[Praying4MiniMe]

The thing is, I didn't "think" I was pregnant until a week after my missed period...(the 5th) thats when I tested and got a BFN, then this morning, another BFN! How could I possibly still be pregnant if I got two negatives? Is there any hope, or do I expect AF within 3 days???