what to do...what to do????

[motherofan18month]

i have know idea what to do.....i live right beside of my mom and she is leaving town in about 10 minutes and my husband had to use my car for work. i dont know whether or not i am miscarrying or if AF decided to pay an early visit...this is getting really frustrating and i am cramping so bad that i cant sit still for even 1 minute. it's like a constant cramp in the ovary area...and every now and then i will get a surge of pain in my side or lower back. i called and asked my sister-in-law if she would take me and my son both to the doctor since he is getting sick and she said she had things to do (spend her tax returns) and she told me that she didn't think i was preggo in the first place....uuuggghhh i am so pissed at her right now. my hubby will take lunch in about 20 min. so maybe i can get him to come home early.

[motherofan18month]

thanks alot....i guess DH and i still have some BDing to do. sure hope this AF hurry along so we can get back to that.

[ziggysgrl0724]

Hi, im sorry your dealing with this.  The most likely answer for your situation is a chemical pregnancy, that would explain the 2 pos tests,, and the more then usualy painful AF......they are VERY common, and usually go undetected, but the fact that home tests are so sensitive now make it very easy to think your pregnant only to have something like this happen.  A chemical pregnancy is when an egg gets fertilized, but never implants properly or anything.  it only lets off enough hormone so that a test can detect it, but it quikcly goes away and that when you start your period...Again, I am very sorry you are dealing with this.

[motherofan18month]

i talke dto a nurse at the hospital and she said that my AF calculations where probably wrong so the last time i thought i was miscarrying after i had a BFP (4 years ago) a nurse at the hospital told me the only reason it was positive is because i was trying to start AF and my horomones were off. so i dont know maybe it's true??

[Jacytee]

Call your Docor!