14 wk ultrasound they said girl didn't see penis but didn't see libia either

[ashbloodworth722]

the obgyn did ultrasound at 14 weeks and didn't see penis although had ambilical cord wrapped all around legs she saw saw like a hamburger bun like image on bottom view.  She said girl and it just didn't feel right I knew with my daughter she was a girl dreamed she was a girl... she felt like a girl... this one feels nothing like that i honestly feel like it is a boy the facial features even look boy.  Am I crazy?  have i deluded myself into just thinking it is a boy or could it be a boy?  I have another ultrasound at 18 weeks but should i just expect another girl ultrasound?  i don't want to be hoping it is something and be disappointed but i genuinely would like either, i don't want to be disappointed and not even know why.

[vacuumprincess]

it looks like "buns" to me.  I say girl.

[amandamae1126]

Yeah, hard to tell. Mine at 16 weeks clearly showed a girl and I just don't see those parts present in your photo...but I don't see boy parts either. I would hold out on picking names or having your heart set on one gender or the other. I was definetly prepared for a boy or a girl, while hubby was set on a boy. I could tell he was in shock when the tech said girl. It only took him a few hours to come around, but it was horrible seeing the disappointment on his face. Just keep an open mind. :) And I hope you get what you are looking for!

[ashbloodworth722]

thanks for the input

[LosingMyMindInGA]

I swore my oldest was a boy..she wasn't  14 weeks is a little early to accurately determine gender.  This pic does look like a girl tho.  I'd wait til your next scan and see.