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advice plz :/

Ok so I'm 31+2days pregnant.  My bf n I recentlys broke up about three wks ago. We lived together for two n a half yrs n decided we should move bak in witb our parents for a while to save money for a bigger place n make it easier to buy baby everything she needs. Well we are trying to stay friends through everything bc we had been together so long and arw having a baby. He wants me to look for a place with him and move in with him n be roommates n take care of our daughter together n also so tht me n her weren't stuck libing with my parents knowing tht I can't afford n apt on my oen and are on the waiting list for all the low income places in my area. At first I was all for the idea for the space n so tht my daughtr could have both her parents in her life 24/7. But I recently found out he wants to see another person not even three wks after we broke up. I don't want to be in a relationship right now but I still llove him andbits been hurting me knowing tht n I'm second guessing moving with him. He said he's going yo wait to do anything with anyone n get into a relationship til at least a couple months after Aubrey is born. But I still  confused as to what to do. I'd just like advice from an outside source who doesn't know us as to what someone thinks I should do stay at my parents house n have us live in my room here or get an apt with my ex knowing shed have her own room n space n try to put my feelings aside
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He has the right to see other people. If you will be hurt by that, then don't move in with him. However, it is perfectly reasonable to have a rule that you guys don't bring partners to the apartment, for the kids' sakes. It might also make it easier for you if you don't actually see the girls.
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To be clear, I mean the girls he will be seeing, not your daughters.
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Lol yea I already told him nobody was guna be around her for a long time. She doesn't need ppl in n out of her life like tht
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I'd wait if I were you. Mainly because I wouldn't want him bringing women home and around the baby. It's a tough situation though  but that's my opinion. Nobody comes around my baby that I don't know/like lol
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