ya i get that competely the half of my family is evil cuz i was pergnant and unwed and i was not with the dad. its better off to tell them now instead of waiting til after the baby is born cuz it will give them sometime to get used to the idea that you are pergnant again. if the say hurtful things just ignore it one of my good friend that is 22 just gave birth to her 5th child and when she was pregnant with him and she told her family they said alot of hurtful things but they got passed it and now they are happy for her:)
Can't base ur life on what they r gonna say, its not like they r the ones providing for u n ur babies
Yeah the problem is I'm 19 w twins that are 6 months old . So they are goin to talk **** like always about my choices my life my boyfriend everything
When i was 19 and pergnant i was sacred ******** to tell my family. I knew i had to tell someone so i told my sister and she hit me over the head wit my mail. it took her a couple of day to process it but she ended up callin me a few days later to let me know that she's not mad and that she is here for me so she helped me tell the rest of the family. i was so glad that i did tell my sister cuz she was with me every step of the way, she was even in the delivery room with me thru the labor and the birth of my amazing baby boy. i know it will be heard to tell your family but i would at least try to tell one of them that you know wont freak out to bad and than they could help you figure out how to tell the rest of them. Its nice to have someone there to talk too. I really hope this helps and let me know how it goes:)
Its ultimately ur decision i wasnt going to say anything until 12weeks but my mother has a big mouth and announced it to my whole family at my 1 year old baby cousins bday party. I didnt want to say anything till i knew my pregnancy was viable and i was past the hard part.