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How do I make my husband understand that we need to buy stuff for the baby :/ I'm due in 3 weeks and he doesn't want to go out and buy anything ! I've got a bouncer and a bath net and like 10 pairs of clothes ! I tell him and tell him and he said we don't need anything yet :0 ugh I tell him we don't have any diapers or wipes, towels, socks, mittens NOTHING ! And he always makes the excuse "He's not here yet" ugh HELP LADIES !!
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9062499 tn?1426957962
Y dont u buy everything online n get it delievered. U wont have to listen to his crap
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It's important you buy wipes and diapers at least.  Bc it's a hassle to get after baby is born. Better to be prepared,  but i agree tell a Friend or family member to take you to get it since he's not
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U don't NEED socks or mittens (I actually hate mittens cuz thats how babies first discover things just gotta keep nails clipped) but id ask him what exactly he intends to do for when baby poops. Cuz baby WILL POOP N POOP N POOP.
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Honestly it sounds like he hasn't registered in his mind that hes having a baby...what a
Fu¢kn idiot...sorry to say...but u already brought it to his attention that your baby needs things so the only thing to do is not wait on his noo good for a$$ nemore. Your just gonna have to b the one to provide for your liddo baby...
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Have a talk. Or i had the same problem, i went into false labor, and the next day he went out and bought everything lol. So you could fake some labor lol.
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9246787 tn?1404943147
3 weeks left tell him the baby can ant minute now and if y'all don't go together he's going to have to go by himself when the baby is here
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I would just go without him, bring my mother or sister
Also let him know that if he booked a hotel 3wks in advance and they say that they won't have a bed or toiletries in the room until the 4th day of his stay, he wouldn't be very happy!
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9194710 tn?1419196407
I think maybe you should really sit down and talk to him. Have him understand that procrastination with things like that aren't going to work. Or maybe, have your doctor mention something to him. How you guys should have things ready and prepared for the baby. Just because the baby isn't there yet, doesn't mean you guys don't need anything! Tell him that spending gradually is better than spending hundreds all at once! Hope that helps a little.
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