CYCLE DAY?DPO?TWW?(2010)p15

[faith2086]

HEY LADIES..TO THE NEW LADIES WELCOME...OUR ROUTINE..IS TO POST SIGNS OF AF LEADING UP TO BFP..THAT INCLUDES ANYTHING U ARE FEELING..EVEN IF ITS LITTLE OR JUST DOESNT MAKE SINCE..IN THIS ROOM EVERYTHING COUNTS..WE HELP EACH OTHER BECAUSE ATLEAST ONE OF US HAS BEEN IN UR SHOES..

baby dust..and lots of love..

[Heatherm4]

Ok...I was reading all the posts on the pt 14.
Just wondering if any of you ladies have tried baby aspirin?
It's low dose, 81mgs or something like that. It's supposed to help the lining of your uterus and the blood flow to your uterus. I was taking it before I got pregnant. I stopped taking it a week after I had found out. I started taking it in December or January.

[Amanda853]

I never heard of that. Im a little confused about what it suppose to help.... I think in the last post you asked me about my wedding plans. Well, we arent really planning anything since we're not having the big wedding for a while. We decided to just go to City Hall and have it done there. We wanted to get it done as soon as possible but i think we might wait until April 24th since thats ot aniversary. I dont know what to wear to City Hall. DH told me not to stress out about it since its not the big wedding but am i still suppose to wear something old, new, borrowed, and blue???

[Amanda853]

Im 10DPO. The stuffy nose and sneezing got worse. Sometimes i see blood  from blowing my nose but i think thats pretty mucu normal. my nose is extremely sensitive. and  breast tenderness is still severe. AF due in 2 days...

[faith2086]

AMANDA---ITS SOUNDS PRETTY GOOD FOR U...I MEAN SORRY UR GOING THRU THIS SICKNESS...BUT ITS WORTH IT..IF UR RESULTS MAYBE A BFP:)BABY DUST

[smjmekg]

Well ladies, DH is gone. Now time to find things to keep me busy the next 20 days, and hopefully even busier the next 9-10 days until AF is due.

[faith2086]

IM JUST HERE ON CD39 AND CANT FIND AF NO WHERE IN SIGHT...AND THE TEST I ORDERED ARE DAYS AWAY FROM GETTING HERE....I MAY PLACE ANOTHER ORDER JUST SO I CAN RUSH SOME HERE...RUNNING OUT OF PATIENCE

[faith2086]

SMJ---I ORDERED MORE TEST OFF EBAY...MY REASON becuz the first set os coming from hong kong...can be here between now and march 3rd...way to far away...i got an order of 50 strips for 13.95 free shipping...will be here by friday...so i will be able to tell u guys something by then...im sure i have enough test to last from either a bfp or af....

[smjmekg]

That's enough tests for the rest of your life, lol. I decided last night after looking at them that I will order them for next month if AF shows this month, I'll go ahead and place the order when AF starts so I'll have them for sure by the time AF would be due. Hoping I don't have to buy them and that a BFP is what DH gets to come home to!!!  

SSSSSBD ladies!!!

[faith2086]

i think u should order them now..cuz if u get a bfp u can take enough test when u get worried to make sure u feel better...and god forbid u get af...the ovulation test would be handy...and lmao...i will test like every thirty minss..just for fun the first few hrs..lol

[smjmekg]

Lol. Well I don't know if next month will happen for sure or not with DH gone. He may be gone while I'm ovulating, and then there would be no point in testing since I know I wouldn't be pregnant if we missed ovulation. Plus I won't be able to get them, you have to sign something if you're a spouse and you want to be able to pick up the mail, and I haven't done it yet, so DH is the only one who could pick it up, and I can't wait 20 more days if AF is due in 9-10. If I do get a BFP I'll be going out to get more FRERs or a digital, and I'll definitely order the cheapies for next month. The second I see the red I'll be ordering the cheapies, but until then I'll just have to wait it out.

Don't know if this means anything but this morning I was having some coffee and started to gag right after I brushed my teeth, and I mean really gaging. I don't normally do that. Although if I remember correctly when I was in the first trimester with DS and later into my pregnancy I could never brush my teeth in the morning cause it made me gag so much, I had to eat first then brush my teeth. Hmm...it may be too early for that, but we'll see I'll be testing in 11 days, or longer, I might give AF an extra day or two to decide if she'll show or not. Eh, maybe not if I start feeling lots of symptoms I may test early, but I'm gonna try to hold out as long as I can.

[Amanda853]

FAITH- I dont know now. Breast tenederness is going down, less cm, and cold is clearing up. UGHHHHH!!! I thought it was time this month...

[faith2086]

SMJ---MY BDAY IS 3-10///AND I HOPE U GET A BFP:)IF IM NOT PREGGO IM MAKING UP FOR LOST TIME AND GETTING WASTED FOR MY BDAY...AND MY FRIEND USE TO GAG AT CERTAIN THINGS SO THAT COULD BE A SIGN.....AND ONE THING THAT SLOWS FERTILITY IS CAFFINE.I HAVE LET IT GO WAS HARD BUT I DID IT A MONTH 1/2...I SOMETIMES CHEAT IF SOMEONE GETS ME A SODA WITHOUT ASKING WHAT KIND....BUT I TRY TO STAY AWAY FROM IT//

AMANDA--SYMPTOMS SEEM TO COME AND GO FOR LOTS OF PEOPLE...DONT GIVE UP YET...JUST KEEP HOPING FOR THE BEST AND PREPARING FOR THE WORSE...

(a little hope)=this was last yr...my cousin who i surprisingly saw at the u/s..clinic..i was checking on my cyst but she was there and 7 months pregnant...i was talking to her asking how she found out...she said she had tooken several hpt all negative..and was still getting af on time every month just a lil lighter..then one day her stomach was cramping her so bad she went to the er...there hpt..negative...they took blood also...came back "+"..then gaave her an emergency u/s..to her surprise she found out she was 4 months with a lil girl...she was shocked and thought she could never get pregnant...she is now 29...the dr..told her sometimes test are just no hope for some..so u ladies never know...i always hoped that would be me...but oh well...so ladies dont give up..u never know

[7yrslater]

To heather--my high risk doc wants to put me on a baby aspirin to prevent any clotting issues. Because I have arthritis and take prednisone he said I am more at risk for clotting issues. Also some people miscarry because they clot at the placenta. So if this is known before hand they will prescribe baby aspirin. I wasn't diagnosed with arthritis until 3 years ago so I had no issues with my 2 daughters. Now I'm considered high risk because of it and the potential problems. They are just taking extra precaution, so for me this time around it feels brand new like I've never experienced pregnancies before. Today I'm 5wks and 3days.
My symptoms so far are a headache off and on. I can smell everything which brings on the headaches. Even if something smells good I still get a headache because the smell is amplified. My breast continue to grow. No nausea yet. But I am very constipated and bloated. Still peeing a lot. I still get the cramps and ligament pulling sensation down there. The weirdest thing is it feels like someone is in there and lightly plucking me every so often. I never had that sensation before and the fatigue has hit me. I feel like I don't get enough sleep. When I get back to work I start counting down to the next time I have off so I can sleep.
SSBD to all and don't give up if you've gotten a BFN, AF hasn't showed yet. Don't give her the benefit of the doubt

[Amanda853]

I told you. I remember (ithink it was last month) when i told you and someone else about my friend that got her period for 3 months (it was a couple days shorter) and when she went to the dostor she found out that the whole time she was pregnant even when she took home preg test. Yall kept telling me it was really unlikely to happen but its ALOT of women that have vaginal bleeding, with neg preg test, and still end up pregnant.

I dont think im pregnant anymore. My cm got thinner. oh well....

[gillianl]

11DPO and bleeding red blood again, not sure whether this is the start of AF or not as it is so light and 3 days early but i've had enough, thinking of taking some time out from this site and ttc.  The docs haven't got back to me yet on the laparoscopy which is making me feel even worse going on 34 months of ttc and the only way i see me conceiving is IVF which is a 3 year wait i really hate my body at the moment

[Uptowngril]

dpo12 today! so tempted to test, but decided not to as the only symptoms at the moment is tender breasts, which can only be the the evil which AF that's showing her ugly face...decided to test maybe on Friday or Saturday if AF doesn't arrive. Pregnancy test is safely packed away at home
SSBD to all

[smjmekg]

I'm so sorry. Out of everyone on here (no offense to anyone else) I kept you in my mind most when it came for hoping for a BFP. I'd send you every single bit of my baby dust, and would rather see you get a BFP and me not get one for another two years. I wouldn't care, you deserve a baby, and I wish there was something I could do to help you. If you do decide to leave the site, I think I'd understand why, but I do hope you'd keep us updated on how you're doing. Do you have facebook or myspace? If you do and want to add me I can send you a link. If you don't I'll be waiting here to see your updates! *HUGS*

[gillianl]

thanks Smj, i'm on bebo i will be on from time to time to see how everyone is doing but i've really had enough.  No offence to any one on here, but every BFP i see makes me even more upset, i have saw so many people come and go from this site and some of them have been a second time or more in almost 3 years of ttc.  I just feel it's time to stop thinking about ttc and just taking life one day at a time.  I really thought i would get my BFP before the end of 2010 but almost 3 months in i really doubt it.

I wish everyone loads of success for the future and pray no one has to go through what i'm going through it tears you up inside

[smjmekg]

I understand completely, I can't imagine what you're going through and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. I really do hope you get your BFP soon. But until then, like you said take life one day at a time, enjoy yourself. I know you're wishing for the day when you can't get up and go when you want because you have a baby, but for now enjoy it. I'm more than positive you will be a mother one day, but for now just enjoy your time with your DF. Maybe instead of TTC just have fun together, and I don't mean just sex, take a vacation, go away for a weekend, try something new that you haven't done before.

[smjmekg]

Just looked at my tracker and remembered I put my O day as CD 17 to mark the LATEST day I could have ovulated, so I'm 4-6 DPO today. Well, 5-7 now as it's almost midnight...it's gonna be a long 17 days without DH here, I can never get to sleep early when he's not home, and Elijah's always up before 8, more recently it's been before 7, UGH! Do I really need to give up my morning coffee? Can't I wait until DH gets back???

[Heatherm4]

This site has a bit of info on baby aspirin: http://www.thebabycorner.com/page/1372/
I was taking it along with B50 complex...I was told by someone that many women that have a tough time TTC are deficient in vitamin B..mostly 12 but I figured I'd cover my bases with the B50 complex.
As far as what you should wear to city hall...just find a cute little white dress....ever see the Sex and the City movie?? Just wear a nice dress...not too formal or anything...just comfy and cute!

Gillian- I understand too if you take a break from everything...I know how secretly heartbreaking it is to see BFP's all over the place because all you want is one of your own. I agree though that  you need to check in and let us know how you're doing!! I know too that you will some day be a mother...some women give up easy when it becomes difficult but you are a strong woman and a fighter! We are all here for you!!

Faith!! You have soo much patience!! LOL

[sprarah]

I hav been wondering about the coffee thing. I have also read about caffeine affecting fertility and also linking caffeine and cyst growth. So maybe the cofee is causing my cysts.

I still havent had time to go in for my u/s yet. The brown spotting stopped at CD12.....now I am CD 15 and have no idea about when I will ovulate. I did have some back pains yesterday and today and a little bit of cramping so maybe I am or did ovulate at a normal time this month. DH and I have just been doin the BD when we want to not cause we feel we have to. I already felt this month was out because of the bleeding.

gillianl.......I am so sorry for you. I really hope you get a BFP soon. Maybe taking it easy and getting away from it all is just what you need.

SSBD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[smjmekg]

I still don't know about the coffee thing...I didn't drink a lot of coffee when I got pregnant with DS, or at least I don't remember if I did...I did drink sodas more though.

[faith2086]

GILLIAN---I HAVE SEEN PEOPLE COME AND GO JUST LIKE U...I HAVE NO CHILDREN...NEVER BEEN PRGNANT...AND MAYBE 9 OUT OF TEN OF MY FRIENDS HAVE CHILDREN AND IM THE ONE DAT DOESNT HAVE KIDS... IT DO HURT AT TIMES AND IF U CANT TAKE IT THEN I WOULD SUGGEST U LEAVING IF IT HURTS U THAT BAD....WE ALL HAVE BEEN THERE...I WISH U THE BEST IN ANY DECISION U MAKE.

HEATHER--IM RUNNING OUT OF PATIENCE...LOL...IM ALMOST TO A POINT TO WHERE IT DOES SUCK IF IM NOT PREGGO...AND OVULATION WOILD BE  HARD...BUT WHO CAN COMPLAIN WHEN NOT HAVING AF...