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birthing TMI Just want advice
I have 11 weeks left till my first baby is born I'm just wondering I know my baby probably gonna be a big baby and etcetera but I'm glad to be having. A baby but I'm also worried about the vaginal birthing cause I feel like my vaginal area not gonna be the same sex before I got pregnant was uncomfortable and hurt sometimes I would bleed and this is tmi but I know I'm tight in that area already, but I'm afraid is the appearance of my vagina is gonna change or look any different? And I mean mine still looks the same right now as I was born I just don't want libia skin hanging out or something but heard they go back to normal normally after the first baby. I just want advice from other moms thats had their babys and knows whats true or not
Yes I second that@!!!... I no I was suction tight before my baby was born!... But after I had her... It's like" haaaaaaaaa"... Mary is my first name!!!... Lol if u get what I mean...lol... But that is Hw I gt right back where I just came frm!!!... Pregnancy!!!!..loli will b 20 weeks in a couple dayzZz...YAAAAY!! For me!!!!!!!!!!
I tore pretty bad. But I got stiched back up :) I swear I was .*ahem* tighter after I had baby. Even now it still hurts when I have sex, and ive had.the same partner for 8 years xx
hey there,
look up perineum stretches. you may be interested in them. i too am tight and i've had a baby. i did the stretches and he gave me two stitches but he said they were 'just in case' stitches cause he didn't think i tore at all.
something to consider if you are worried about tearing. you can also search this topic on this site. there are a lot of women who also have this concern and i have read a few questions that had really great answers to them. they also supported that having a child doesn't necessarily mean ruining your genitals...sometimes it makes it tighter. vagina's are amazing and do stretch back and forth. you can also do kegels after baby is born to help tighten up a bit if you feel you need. (they are also great to do on a daily basis anyway, you may notice bladder control issues later on and kegels are helpful for that)
hope you have a great delivery!
look up perineum stretches. you may be interested in them. i too am tight and i've had a baby. i did the stretches and he gave me two stitches but he said they were 'just in case' stitches cause he didn't think i tore at all.
something to consider if you are worried about tearing. you can also search this topic on this site. there are a lot of women who also have this concern and i have read a few questions that had really great answers to them. they also supported that having a child doesn't necessarily mean ruining your genitals...sometimes it makes it tighter. vagina's are amazing and do stretch back and forth. you can also do kegels after baby is born to help tighten up a bit if you feel you need. (they are also great to do on a daily basis anyway, you may notice bladder control issues later on and kegels are helpful for that)
hope you have a great delivery!
Yeah I'm probably gonna tear to Im 22 and just don't want myself ruined down there is all and I'm single now to with this baby
You will bleed either way, vaginal or section. Your vagina will go back to normal. I have a scar from my episiotomy, but it isn't bad. Sex will hurt after having a baby, but the discomfort goes away.
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