how can I stay calm when im so stressed?

[countrymama2]

So here it is my mom doesn't know im prego im dealing with tryin to get full custody of my son just got a new house with my boyfriend and are boys and my bestfriend Zak and im finishing hair school I find my self sooo emotional and I wanna have a peaceful pregnancy this time my last one was bad cuz I was stressed  and was in a domestic violence relationship with my 3 year olds sperm doner  so im try to finger out how to be calm with no stress

[countrymama2]

Thank you sooooo. Much it does help alot

[CassieGray]

Well from what I hear, your last pregnancy was the one that was very stressful. With this time around, you have bought a house with your bf, you are finishing school, and now you are expecting a baby, all of these things would be 'good stress',  now as you know, being this is your second pregnancy, hormones will make you a nervous and emotional reck, but its normal :) just remind yourself that this pregnancy is in a significantly better place in your life, and all things that are worth stressing about, are GOOD things. And as for telling your mom? Well, do that when YOU are ready. Do it maybe when you are starting to show? Odds are it might slip out before then, but what's important is that mommy does it when she's ready :) hope that all helps a little.