It's actually better to labor at home as long as possible and as long as you're comfortable. Definitely sounds like the real deal and can't wait to hear a birth story update!!!
Well better safe than sorry, good luck! hopefully youll have your baby today LOl
I'm about 30 minutes from the hospital, but I have to get my husband home from work and my sister here to watch my dd. This is just so different from my last labor that I'm being a little stubborn I think :) I have everyone on alert so I think I'm just going to get things in the car and everyone over here. I want to wait it out a little longer because I really don't want to get sent home. I've been waiting for this and now I think I'm just afraid to admit that it really may be happening!
Id go now and get checked. I was having them every 3 minutes for like a minute each before I went in. I was also 4 cm and 90% dilated. Still ended up being a couple hours until I had my baby but everything moved so fast that I almost missed my chance at my epidural. I'd rather have the epidural in and not deal with the pain instead of transition and then get it right before you push.
How far away from the hospital are you? That would play a big part on how long I would wait to head out. It sounds like you are in labor. With my second, I waited until my contractions were 2-3 minutes apart and lasting for 45 seconds to a minute. This all happened once my midwife did the sweep and within 8 hours I was in real labor. I was 20 min away from the birthing center, so I knew I had plenty of time. ( I was 4cm and 80% for just about a month, so I had to make it was the real thing as well)
If i were you i would go to the hospital because what if it is the real thing? you dont want to deliver at home with out assitance or on the highway! The worse thing that is going to happen is theyre going to send you home. From what you said theyre stronger, i would get my things together, call my doc let them know whats going on and head out! good luck!