Husband Left

[VShea]

I am starting my 7th month of pregnancy and my husband has left, he said that he is not happy and wants out...
I'm just needing some support to get me thou this untill the baby is born. Has anyone else went thou this??? If so please tell me how to deal with this better. I don't want any harm to come to my baby or me due to my emotions.....

[smileynow]

Maybe you have the little one by now and are moving into your new role as Mother.  I hope all is well and you are either learning to go it alone or are big enough to forgive your less than perfect man.

Perhaps Mr. Jack@$$ has come to his senses.  Don't listen to him or "friends & family" who will try to pin some of the blame on you for his pathetic behavior.  Some people just don't know how to deal with change and new responsibilities without acting like a fool, and maybe now he realizes this.


Happy Holidays.:)

[SunWorshiper_26]

I'm sending lots of prayers to you and your baby. Surround yourself with love and support from friends family and your medhelp community.

[irrelevance]

I went through this, but in a different context.  I don't have a lot of time to write at the moment, but feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to.  I hope things get better for you..

[expectingandhopeful]

Terrible thing to go through during prgnancy!!! Sorry to hear about this :-( But I tell you it's better that he left and you have peace and quiet than if he stayed unhappy and make you unhappy and in result make your baby unhappy. All the things happen for the reason. Poeple freak out when the responsibility like baby comes into their lives, especially man, and look for a way out. Often though they realize what they missed but it's too late. you will be just fine <3 You will be so happy to have your baby and you will never be alone but he will! He'll be lonely and miserable and it will be killing him inside that there's a baby out there that's his, maybe will look like him and he can't have it. Be strong please! Hopefully you'll have family support and are financially independent. If not then  you should start looking for resources right now and there are many out there. You are going to be wonderful mommy to your baby and have to be strong so that you can take care of your little one. As sad as you'll be for a while it will go away. Maybe you will meet your true love one day who will not only love and adore you but will want to be a father to your baby as well <3 Believe in that, miracles happen everyday! I am here if you need to talk! Sending you lots of love and strength!!!

[LosingMyMindInGA]

I'm sorry to hear about this. Men can be real jerks sometimes.  You are obviously a strong woman.  You WILL get through this.  It's not likely that emotions will affect your baby.  It's the inability to handle those emotions that cause problems.  If you start feeling depressed, don't eat properly or engage in otherwise risky behavior - that is when it becomes a problem.  So long as you aren't doing any of that, baby will be fine.  So will you!  We're here to support you in any way we can.

[JennyB0125]

I am so sorry to hear you are going through this, I know it is a tough time, but you will pull through & you will be stronger for it.  When my ex husband & I split, it was such a hard time but I am better off without him, I am now happier than I have ever been, I have an amazing husband & we are ttc.  

I have every faith you will come out on top stronger than ever, & that you will find true happiness.  Wishing you all the best!  If you need someone to vent to or chat to add me as a friend I would be happy to listen. :)

[trying43]

Sorry u r dealing with this sending big  hugs and prayers ur way...

[txgurl4real]

I am so sorry to hear this , I know you must be very emotional and confused right now. I wish I could offer you some helpful advice but I have never been in this situation.Just try to stay busy and focus on yours and your little ones health. If you need some one to talk to or even vent to please feel free to send me a message. I will keep you and your baby in my prayers. Sending you lots of hugs:)