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Why does my bf not wanna have sex like befor . Now he either ignores me when i tell him or he says he's going to sleep cuz he's bored :( could it be cuz im getting stretch marks -&& fat ugly :( im starting to get depressed i dont feel loved or wanted nomore ! :'(
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That sounds like he don't want to harm the baby. Ask him. And tell him how you feel. Maybe he will tell you wats going on. He only knows what he's thinking and what's going threw he's head. Good luck :)
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I know that my sister husband wouldn't have some sex with her when she was pregnant and he actually told her it was BC she got too "fat" and had stretch marks... and thats now what she looked like when they met so he didnt want to have sex until she got back in shape. Guys can be so mean! I'm so lucky my fiancé loves me and the way I look now as much as he liked me before.. he is all over me now lol its so cute... he makes me feel good when I feel like a whale lol
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Guys can be so insensitive sometimes :( personally my hubby loves my stretch marks. He says im like a tiger momma. And even though i dont like them, ive learn to make the best of it and it kinda looks like a tiger on my lower tummy now lol just remember no matter what you look like, that angel inside will love you for everything that you are! :) guys are weirder. They get uncomfortable real fast with the fact that a baby is in there, they dont how to react to body changes and lets be serious.....they can be kind of dense! You just have to cheer yourself up and remember that your doing all the work here, not him Nd you should be proud of what your creating inside. If he doesnt see it that way then too bad for him. When comes time to give birth squeeze his hand a little harder and give him something to complain about. A couple broken fingers wont even be bear as painful as what you are going threw and what you have to go threw at the end of your 9 months :)
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Ive told him that ive even asked the dr in front of him he was okay with it we were still going at it till like 2 weeks ago when i showed him that i got stretch marks ! Maybe im unatractive to him now. I cant really explain to him how i feel cause he doesnt understand he says its just me going crazy but honestly i just cry -&& he doesnt even bother asking wats wrong nomore :'(
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I'm sure its because he's scared of hurting the baby hounstly all i can say is talk to him and see y cuz my man was like that with the frist untill we talked about it and i told him that there's no way of hurting the baby or me..... good luck dear
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It could be he's uncomfortable with the fact there's a baby in there. I have guy friends who can't get in the mood because they're worried about hurting their baby. It's weird but I'm serious. It may have nothing to do with you. You should tell him how you feel. Ask him why and tell him you feel I attracted because of his actions. Good luck!
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Any body else feel this way ?!

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