Im 20 got the same ****.but mainly i am stopping my massage and the great opratunities i had with Cal Berkely and.building a business but i found.out at 15 weeks was just finishing college and someone totaled my new car so everything hot screwed for me .except my soon to.come son people get on.board later on...my mom was 19 with my sister 21 with me my friend was 17 and half the class i was in was 16 years old abd pregnant then the next year again pregnant my cousin had a kid at 15 BUT his girl was 18 still wow young right? As long as you do the best for your baby who cares what they think there are younger people with kids....
And these people should really ask how old there mothers and grandmothers were when they got pregnant.
My Nana was 17 when she had my eldest uncle.
People will say these things to you while you're pregnant, but once you have your baby it's all smiles and pretend that they never gave you a hard time!!!
(sore subject for me, sorry for the rant...) :/
Honestly people are stupid and will always talk rubbish. I'm 22 and I just had my son 10 weeks ago, throughout my pregnancy people kept telling me that I am stupid for getting pregnant so quickly. I got married last August but me and my husband were engaged for over two and a half years. (I'm Muslim)
Even though they love our son, I still hear 'you should've waited longer', ' your stupid for getting pregnant', ' you could've gone travelling','I still think you're too young to have a baby', and my favourite! 'this was your choice, you won't get any sympathy from me'
Even though they say that I look tired and I reply with yes I am.
You need to learn to ignore these people, they have got nothing to do with you or your baby. Yes it wasn't planned but you love your child and that's all that matters. Everyone else can do one!
You will always be judged no matter what you do because everyone has a different opinion on thing but don't let it get you down I got pregnant at 17 but that's just a choice I made ....every one makes there own choices that's what life is about even if people think its not a good choice no one is perfect we will all do something others think is dumb that doesn't mean you are ....
I'm only 20, I have pcos, AND was on birth control. My chances of getting pregnant with pcos alone was close to impossible without drugs (I only ovulated four times out of the year! ) and with pcos risk for miscarriage are 3 times more likely... I'm 25w3d with a healthy baby girl on the way. And even though im very young, it's quite literally going to happen if its intended. Whether it be gods will or some illogical reason, never feel stupid! Its a beautiful thing