I'm so sorry you're going through this. I hope and pray all turns out alright.
I bled heavily and passed clots for five or more weeks while pregnant with lexi. Unfortunately when you bleed while pregnant it can go either way.it's not your fault. Follow up with your midwife to make sure how everything goes. I'll be praying for you!
Hoping things are looking up for you. Please update us when you can. I know how this feels. I've had two miscarriages and a full term stillbirth. What you described about how you were feeling is COMPLETELY normal!!!! We're all here fo ryou!
Clysta I'm so sorry I wasn't here for you last night...how is everything? I understand how awful the process is, after having a miscarriage when I started bleeding with Grey it was like my whole world turned upside-down. The miscarriage was hard for me, but I didn't have any babies yet so I didn't know what I was missing - after Kahlan, thinking I would lose a baby was the worst feeling in the world. BUT I didn't lose him....so maybe everything will turn out just fine with you too.
thinking of you and i'll be checking later to make sure you're alright (hugs) please message me ifyou need to talk.
Im so sorry this is happening. I hope things turned out to be okay because people do bleed sometimes and it turns out okay..
Its something that regardless of your knowledge on miscarriage, it still is so hard... I remember for a couple days I found out anytime I was left alone, I would just burst into tears.. but they were dramatic crying fits that I couldnt control...
i am really praying that everything turned out.
I no everything is gonna be ok with you, just pray and leave it in gods hands. I went threw something similar just last month i bleed like my period was on i went to the e/r sat there 4 hrs. no one called and fortunatley the bleeding stopped, i was going to see my ob doc the next day anyways so i got up and left needless to say when i went the next day they check my cervix and said everything is fine, the only thing im scared about is that they said they couldn't hear my babys heartbeat. they said it was to early to hear it on the doppler and i was only 3 days away from 12weeks but they said it still was to early, even tho i told them the heartbeat was heard at 7weeks on an ultrasound they said it was diffirent well im 3mnths and 2wks and im feeling great, keep your head up baby and let us no what the doc says i just no you and baby will be fine. P.S. maybe you should let one of your family members watch little kylie while you get some rest tell her i said hi.
i had a heavy deep red bleed while in hospital for the HG at 10/11 wks, i had litrally been vomiting my guts up, then when i went to the loo after there was LOTS of red, (which was dripping from me) i even has a few small clots! the bleeding lasted like this the whole of that day and night, i was even having to use the hospitals materinty pads!!! but by the morning it had eased in to a brown ish light spotting, and as you know Oscar's here and fine :o).
hope you and baby are ok, let me know how you get on, X
hey clysta, i had very heavy bleeding my second pregnancy from around 6 weeks til 11 weeks. Every thing turned out fine tho, they dont know what caused it...it may not be anything to be concerned about so try not to worry and stress yourself, i know its hard not to tho. I really hope all is well! keep us posted :) xx
So sorry to hear that you are dealing with this. Have you been seen yet? It sounds like you things are not certain yet, so keep that in mind. This is not necessarily a miscarriage. I will be sending you all the positive vibes I can. Hang in there.
oh gosh, i am so sorry.....i am understand what you mean about not fully understanding somebody's pain until you have been there and i have been there with losses and know that there is nothing i can say that will make you feel better
but please know i am thinking about you and hope you feel better soon
Good luck, my thoughts are with you at this horrible time. You have been so helpful to so many people on here. I really hope it just turns out to be a nasty scare.
Clysta, your in my thoughts and prayers, I didnt even know you were pregnant again. i'm never on the 18-34 anymore.
I am thinking about you Clysta....
Hoping everything is ok and you get some answers. NOt knowing what is going on is the absolute worst. Think positive and hang in there!
I cried a lot when I miscarried I cried and cried and eventually one day at a time it got easier to face the day and while I'll never forget I can now move forward.
Hugs!
Im sorry girl i did not realize you were pregnant, which just makes this harder. It is so hard to go through a loss, not saying you are, and then continue to try. Actually df and i were not trying for a baby but when we fell pregnant the first time and lost baby it made us want one. I pray everything with baby is ok and continues to go well. Im here if you need anything.
Oh my im sorry your going through this! I hope all works out and everything is ok. Please keep us updated as you can.
And it's even more silly----I was so adamant about not wanting more and yet when it happened............................
It's weird---I'm starting to not feel anything. I just feel......I don't know. I'm just here. I keep trying to answer questions in an attempt to keep my mind busy and it's not working. I just keep going over everything I know about miscarriage and then I think about the questions I've answered for others in the past that have been in this place. It's awful, and I now understand how amazingly heartless I sound---I mean I know I have been in the past, but I never really understood how much till now. I hate this process, I hate not knowing and I just want to wake up and find everything is just a bad dream. I keep thinking it's my fault and if maybe this infection is doing it, if it's because of my body and being malnourished, if it's because I haven't been eating properly the last few months, not taking my prenatals....UGH. I'm driving myself crazy, and now my nurse is concerned because I just burst into tears. I hate to not feel in control. I never knew how hard this really was---how do others do this? How do you get through it? It's so silly. I'm not even far along. I was just so excited....I never thought that this would happen to me. With Kylie I never had any problems beyond my vomiting and weight loss.
So sorry Clysta, I hope things are okay. Thinking about you, please let us know!
Oh no no. Sorry, I should have specified more. It got worse, and I'm having mild cramping so we're sitting in the ER now. I'm super close to tears, and I don't have much hope. I'll update when I learn more later.
Oh my gosh!!! I feel like such an idiot. When I thought it was from straining, I was thinking you were bleeding from the mouth...I don't think any amount of straining would cause vaginal bleeding if you weren't already bleeding. Sorry for my idiotic answer earlier!
Hoping all if fine Clysta!
that is scary....hopefully its nothing serious but i know what you mean about Kaylie making it difficult
i worry all the time when i have to pick Em up....she is over 20 lbs and i worry that lifting her will hurt my babies....i have not had any spotting but i am def talking to my ob about it on mon
try to relax when Kaylie goes to bed and hopefully it stops...if it doesnt, please be seen....you never know but it could be something that needs to be seen (im hoping not)
wow, that seems scary!! are you pregnant now? that would be my first question. it cant be a good sign whether pregnant or not.. hope all is ok!