DON'T WAIT....!!!!

[hotmama78]

To everyone of you who pregnant and do not felt your baby kicking if you used to felt it...!!! DO NOT WAIT....!!! PLEASE DON'T WAIT... i know some will say its normal... just do me a favor DON'T WAIT please.....!!! PLEASE... go doctor... go er... go midwife... or whatsoever kind of ways you used for your pregnancy do not wait....!! i am 21weeks to little baby Boy Aidan Lee... when i not felt him kick as usual on the 2/12/2012... i stupid i wait over night.. the very next day... 8am i wait my doctor at his room door till 9am, when he come only i ask him please we talk later, let me see my baby boy 1st... do me the scan...!! only to be tell he already passed... :((

I go thru still birth and till now i not move on yet... i tried and tried and tried trust me its only getting harder and harder day by day... :(( so i BEG ALL OF YOU LADIES... DON'T WAIT...!!! TRUST ME WHEN I SAY IT'S NOT COOL TO BEEN THRU WHAT I BEEN THRU...!!! YOU NEVER WANT TO BE SORRY...!!! SO DO IT... I BEG THE MOMENT YOU REALIZE YOU NOT FELT THE BABY KICKING... DON'T WAIT...!!!  JUST DON'T WAIT....!!!

Poor Rachel.... :((

[beauty12]

My heart goes out to you bbe... I can not describe the feeling of creating something so precious and thn never been able to hold n raise it.... I hve been married for 5 yrs... I got married at age of 18... Tried for baby nothing... Found out i had pcos... I ws disappointed but not hopeless.... Whn i turned 20 i started changing my diet... I never use to eat anything n work out everyday... It took me two yrs of suffering and fertility medication i fell pregnant last yr.... Whn i turned 22 in august... I ws over the moon... Bt thn i started suffering again in november i ws in hospital in n out just to confirm that i lost my lil angel at 11 weeks... Baby ws measuring only 6wks.... Thy said it ws normal... I spent whole december in bed... Bleeding n crying.... Tht i worked so hard... I ws tired n exausted..... I had so much mental disturbance i never got out of the house for 3 months... I hardly use to speak to nyone or do nything.... I k ow its nothing compare to what u hve been thru... I m pg again... N few days ago i had a scare of life time.... I never use to feel my zain nyway but i do use to feel him once or twice a day or in the evening....n thn he stopped moving i cried so much coz i thought i lost him.... I hve been scared through out my pregnancy... Still am... But thn after 24hrs of me n my dh praying n begging God not to put us thru this crucial pain... He started kicking me hard... N thn yesterdai i went to hospital hes f9 thanks to GOd... Bt i hve been advised to come bck if his movements slow down or stop... Now i hve to keep an eye on his movements.....
I know just tht lil scare gave me heart attack i could understand wht u must hve gone thru....

[hotmama78]

Too bad Baby Aidan was my 5th fail pregnancy and the longest i ever go... the rest 4 ended with D&C 3 time and 1 natural m/carry all at 8weeks and 10weeks, the 2nd time was twins :(

I done with pregnancy hun.. i did c-sec last Jan 15 for baby Aidan and right away did the tube cut and burnt, i am now into travelling and visit all the friends close to my heart and have lol time..

I just recently back fr Australia and is so much fun. Once i done with all this travelling i am planning into re-open my daycare that i was doing before i plan pregnancy for 4years and looking into adoption :)

I very much moving on and life has been great, will be in Singapore for X'mas and Philippines for V'day but the pain and memories of Baby Aidan stay and never gone :(

So for all of you who have similar problem better save then sorry....!! JUST DON'T WAIT....!!! everyone is different and i just recently read another case of 26weeks drop by here asking why her baby girl not moving then i boom into her post in M/carry forum she stillbirth her baby girl just few days after her post :-( so just DON'T WAIT IF YOU USE TO FELT YOUR BABY AND YOU NOT....!!!!

Lots Love
Rachel....xx

[V_Marie123]

Sorry bout your loss .are u pregnant now? I miscarried and I have been scared this whole pregnancy .now I'm 26 weeks and felt I had nothing to worry about but I guess I still do.but my son moves alot so if I feel him not movin even to I kno he may be sleep which he rarely do.I do something to try n make him move..I feel bad because ikno he had to sleep but .he got me so use to him moving every second..I live him and pray t gid everyday .this labor go threw just fine

[hotmama78]

Got reason why u bump this post of mine...!!! Trust me you don't want to wait...!!!!

[hotmama78]

Thank you dear.. Aidan will be forever my little darling bf..!!! till i meet him again when my times come, he will be forever here in my heart... i know for sure someday i will move on again.. just i don't know when...??? but no matter what Aidan will always alive in my daily life till i bid my final goodbye..!! i tell him everyday for the past 21weeks he in my belly... he going to be my one and only... and yeahhhh... he will... unless GOD decided otherwise... but i very much open for adoption bcos i know Aidan will be very happy if i can help one out fr the millions unfortunate child out there... finger cross the day will come soon when i finally hugs my adopted child in my arms...

[mamaof4410]

I love the way you refer to your baby by his name. It shows all of the ladies that the bond between a mother and her child is just as strong in the womb as it is when you hold them tightly in your arms. I love the message you are sending out and again I'm sorry for your loss. But Aiden is an angel sent to you so you can make sure and educate all of us on the importance of following our instincts.
And in no way should you blame yourself for this happening. You didn't think anything could have been wrong. I know that is so much easier said than done. But please just know it was not your fault. You love him more than anything. I feel the love from reading your posts.
R.I.P. Aiden Lee. You will forever be in our hearts!

[Stacey91]

=[ that's really sad! ..and at being so close  ..my heart goes out to you.. doesnt seem fair at all =[ xxx

[hotmama78]

Dear all...

There is nothing wrong with my baby Aidan... just the umbilical cord get twisted and stop the blood flow but its not coil him.. due to he is kicking and moving so actively  maybe.. that's the only reason doctor can think about... i did my NT test when he was 14weeks as well the thallasemia and many other blood test which i couldn't remember anymore... but everything was prefect.. his heart rate was always 150 to 160...

According to doctor this is rare happen but it will happen to those unlucky one.. like me!!! :( bcos of the room still got so much space and the baby was tiny so they can move easily... Aidan was very active boy i starting feel him kicking at 13 weeks.. i know maybe its not but i know what i saw at my belly when i place some light snack paper on it.. but somehow that's kill him.. so sad.. :( once again thank you everyone for comfort.. i trying moving on even its so hard to do so.... :((

About will i carry another one again soon.. i don't think so unless GOD want otherwise bcos i did c-sec during the still birth and we decided to did the tube cut and burnt.. i know its too early to decided as i am only 34 and hubby 35 but i and my hubby felt we enough and open for adoption fr now on but not so soon.. not till i can be firm alright and move on... the entire pregnancy make my body getting weaker and weaker and not only we wasted too much $ into it... its making both of us truly tired mentally and my emotion getting worst and worst.. it's kinda rush but we believe there is many other happiness out there beside having baby... so i am looking forward for it and hope i won't wait too long to come out fr this pain that i starting feeling like killing me...!!!

[mommybear0710]

Did the doctor say why you lost your babys or if they could have been saved if they had been checked sooner? I ask because I'm 29 weeks 5 days with my third daughter and for the last week she went from kicking hard all the time to moving maybe a few times a day and she's not strong anymore, I've called my doctor twice and they aren't concerned but finally agreed to do an ultrasound in the morning. Some days she doesn't move at all.

[alexiah]

Im sorry for loss I cant say I know what you're going thru cuz that never happened to me before and I  hope u get well soon cause it must be really hard to go through your situation God bless u and the Lil angel

[Razzie84]

I've always thought that too hun,why did my little girl pass at 38 weeks,it seems so cruel that she was so close to her due date yet for some reason God obviously needed her more than I did. I had a lot of picture taken of her and have a shrine in my frontroom that I take comfort in when I'm feeling low and unable to cope and find if I talk to her pictures it makes me feel better. I don't think there is anything worse than loosing a child,its an indescribable experience and I'm sorry that you've lost 5 babies : ( I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and its not clear why straight away but later on in life your find the answers. It turned out my little girl had Downs Syndrome and would have been severely disabled,I would have loved her and looked after her no matter what but maybe she would have been in a lot of pain etc. She's happy now and I know she's going to be waiting for me when my turn comes. Keep strong xxx

[Omacastrop]

I'm sorry for ur loss. I too know what ur going through. I went into labor with my twins at 23wks. I lost 1 within hrs of delivery & lost his sister 26 hrs later. 5 yrs later I carried a daughter to term with no problems. 1 yr later I had another daughter with no problems. Everything is in Gods hands.

[hotmama78]

:(( :(( :(( :(( :((.... hey dear... thank you so much for sharing... a week before the disaster day Aidan baby was very active too... he move kicking and doing all the boxing like nobody business...!! i was keep talking and exciting and asking "what happen son.." some girls in the TV hits your nerves...?? remember all those moments my heart so bleed...!!! very badly... badly... Aidan was my 5th pregnancy but my 1st baby... i m/c go thru D&C twice and natural m/c twice... in 4 years trying.. total lost 5 times... but he is the only one i go till that far and i already convince myself finally the ONE it's coming yet i was wrong...!!!! i just cannot stop crying and asking GOD why why why why why????? don't HE enough with the 4 times...???? but the only answer i got... HE for sure got better plan for me.. nothing else...does HE??? and now all i got is Aidan baby's ashes... THAT'S ALL...!!! AND ITS REALLY HURT BADLY... but thanks everyone for the comfort...!!

[momabear86]

I'm truly sorry for your loss and its what I fear the most all though I do believe that even if you had gone straight away there may have been nothing they can do. I hope as time passes that you will feel better

[Razzie84]

Hi hun,just read your post and felt I had to share my experience with you. Firstly I'm so sorry to hear your baby had passed,I too know exactly how you feel and I can relate to. With my last pregnancy,my little girl was very active and I had no concerns with her movement at all,however as the pregnancy reached the last trimester I noticed her movements were less frequent however I still wasn't too concerned as she was my 4th baby and I thought she had just got into a comfortable position for birth. I woke up one morning when I was 38 weeks and had a gut instinct that something wasn't quite right,I immediately went straight to the hospital to get checked and the midwife tried to find a heartbeat,unfortunately an ultrasound also confirmed that my little angel had passed. Having to go through a labour and birth knowing she was no longer with me was the hardest thing I've ever had to do and seconds seemed like hours. It's a horrible feeling knowing that you won't be taking your baby home with you...It's something that you won't ever get over hun and you will always remember your little boy but as time goes on it does get easier,hard to believe I know. I still cry my eyes out somedays and wish things didn't happen. Have you looked on the SANDS website hun,its fantastic at offering supports and the little memorials they do are lovely. You are right,anybody expecting a baby notice less or no movement at all need to get to hospital ASAP,don't wait! Big hugs to you xx

[mmmandi]

Im very sorry for your loss.

[hotmama78]

SORRY FOR THE DATE.. ITS 1/12/2012...!!!