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Does this mean im pregnant?!! Not ready for this, still too young!

Ive made bad choices, i know. Im 16 & i decided to spend a day with the guy i thought i loved i was with him for 4 years, on and off. I thought i could trust him.. We started to drink and i blacked out, i remember opening my eyes and seeing him on top of me, we were having sex and i know for sure i wasnt fighting back because we've had sex before and before we started drinking i kinda wanted to but WITH a condom. Then i wake up in my bed..
The next day i was with him he said we did it more than once he didnt use a condom and he came inside me because he "wanted to know how it felt".. i was upset i didnt know what to say or do so i didnt think much of it. I have a period calender on my phone it says i had sex in my fertile days, 3 days before ovulation BUT 2 days after i had unprotected sex i had cramping and it felt like how i get when i ovulate.. Thats when i started to think of possibilities, my period was supposed to come on the 4th and still not here.
My boobs are sensitive but usually before i get my period my lower back hurts i get BAD cramping & really bad mood swings.. i dont have ANY of those symptoms. I havent been stressing about it but for the past 2 days it keeps popping up in my head.. Any advice or anything?
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I can't judge on the drinking I made bad choices as a teen too, most teens do. I was a teen mother and I can honestly say even if I could, I would not go back and change a thing. There is a possibility of pregnancy and you should definitely test as soon as you can. Don't freak out now cuz it might end up that you aren't. Being a teen mom myself I can say it's rough but it won't ruin your life. If you aren't pregnant try to make better choices to avoid that risk again. Test and keep us updated.
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1194973 tn?1385503904
It's very possible to be pregnant. There's not too much to do other than wait another week and take a pregnancy test with first morning urine.

You also need to be tested for disease and infection. I would also strongly think about your relationship. This guy clearly doesn't respect you or your health and sounds like he's using you. You should also not be putting yourself in these situations. You're 16. Why are you drinking at all? Not only are you a minor, but you could destroy your life before you even start to live. enjoy childhood, and don't be in a rush to grow up. Leave drinking to the proper age, and be a child for as long as you can.
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376148 tn?1309899577
you could be pregnant...you need to take a test....if your period is late you should get an accurate result now....and if you are pregnant...being pregnant at 16 is not the end of the world...its alot of work but if you have lots of support then it shouldnt be so bad...if your not pregnant you need to get on some b.c and tell that guy you trust so much to go the other way..he really cant be trusted after the stunt he pulled...good luck and keep us updated...maby get tested for stds....just in case...
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