ANYONE ELSE TTC THIS MONTH AND GET A NEG

[Sarah61086]

IM SURE THERE ARE LOADS OF YOU OUT THERE TTC THIS MONTH AND GOT A NEG.
IM ONE OF THEM.
IM SO DISSAPOINTED, I DID EVERYTHING I COULD AND HAD SEX AT THE RIGHT TIME SO IM SO CONFUSED AS TO WHY I DIDNT HAPPEN.
CRAZILY ENOUGH, I SWEAR I HAD LOADS OF SYMPTOMS. MY BODY CERTAINLY PLAYED A CRUEL TRICK ON ME.
WHAT MAKES IT WORSE IS THAT IM IRREGULAR AND HAVE TO WAIT 5 WEEKS BEFORE IM FERTILE AGAIN WHICH (WHEN YOUR TTC) SEEMS LIKE A LIFE TIME AWAY.

[Sarah61086]

ditto :-)

[Tasia32]

Thanks, I really will try because I want another baby!

[Sarah61086]

you probably skipped ovulation by being stressed, happened to me a while back.
Just try and stay as stress free as possible so that you ovulate again next month :-)

[Tasia32]

Wow, you should definitely get preggers using all that :-)

So I saw the family doctor last week and she did a blood test Friday it came out negative. AF was due 2 weeks ago and still hasn't shown but now I am starting to think I ovulated later then I thought because of stress I had around AF last month and I probably missed bding with dh because he was so freaked AF was going to start while we were having sex so I know I am out for this month :-(
I am going to go see my ob/gyn to make sure everything is still normal and I am healthy and it was only the stress preventing AF.

[Sarah61086]

i went on that fertility website today - the one i told u guys about in an earlier message.
I bought the following:
fertility checker for women and men
pre-seed lubricant to help aid sperm
female and male vitamins to help get pregnant
and finally ovulation sticks

if that dont help me get pregnant, i dont know what will lol :-)

[Sarah61086]

could have just skipped AF this month, due to stress etc.
Happened to me a while back and took 13 weeks b4 i saw my next AF.

Dr will blood test you in a week, so try not to worry about anything.

I know its frustrating, im desperate TC as well

Hopefully we will both get there very soon :-)

[lissie01]

Im 10 days late and still no AF! HPT say negative and doctor wnt test me for another week.. arrr its driving me crazy!! i know i should just get over it and accept im not pregnant but i just want a baby so bad! im sick of waiting and the disapointments month after month...

[Sarah61086]

are you trying ovulation sticks?

[CA25]

ME!!! Argghh going on 8 months....I pray... I ask God... I do it all... I just had a lap to check everything even had a hsg... NOTHING is WORKING!!!!!! I just wanna scream,.... AF is due on the 29th of this month!

[Sarah61086]

still may be  too early, keep strong, nothings final until AF appears :-D

[Linzola1]

ME!!!! BFN today at 10dpo!

[Sarah61086]

sorry about your neg result, its horrible i know.
so many of us are out there doing everything we can to conceive, and its so heart wrenching every month seeing a neg result and af popping in.
The worst thing is, is when you do everything your supposed and even have symptoms, because it gives you hope you have conceived.
Its just month after month of dissapointment.

To GOKUANGEL - im sorry for you that its taking you so long to get pregnant. However, pls try not to let it affect you and your husband. I know its difficult but the last thing you need is to have your relationship in tatters. Stress, will affect your fertility anyway, so saying as relaxed as possible will hopefully help aid in your conception. I know its hard, but we all have to try.

FOR ANY OF YOU WHO ARE CONCERNED FOR YOUR FERTILITY BE IT YOURSELVES OR YOUR HUSBANDS, THERE IS A FANTASTIC WEBSITE WHERE YOU CAN BUY, OVULATION STICKS, FERTILITY TESTS, LUBRICANTS THAT DONT HARM SPERM, ETC ETC ETC, HERE IS THE LINK, MAYBE YOU COULD ALL CHECK IT OUT TO SEE IF THERE IS ANYTHING THEY HAVE THAT YOU THINK MAY BE BENEFICIAL TO YOU. I BOUGHT OVULATION STICKS FROM THERE, REALLY CHEAP ONES THAT WERE £10 FOR 50 AND THEY WORKED NO PROBLEMS, IM CONTEMPLATING THE MALE FERTILITY TEST FROM THERE AS WELL. RIGHT NOW IM WILL TO DO ANYTHING THAT MAY HELP :-D


www.sme-fertility.co.uk

[Momo1409]

Ik how u feel gokuangel. my bf and I have been trying for just a shot time. And he always tells me he knew itd take time but he has 2 kids! So to me that means there I something wrong with me. And we fight bout that a lot. And of course when ur fighting ur nt getting much bding.

Ik its just something that takes time for ppl. But my family has never had trouble. My sister has 3 my mom had 5 and my mom and uncle are 10 months apart. :( we just gotta keep tha twinge of hope.

[degriffdog]

Just thought I would update you, my stupid AF came early this morning.  So annoying.

[lissie01]

Hey ladies I have been ttc for 7 mnths i am 21 and THIS IS DRIVING ME INSANE!! everyone around me is pregnant and having babies. i am 1 week late for my periods and still getiing NEG HPT. Doc wnt help me for another week, Im going through a wirlwind of emotions!! and swear i have symptoms!!  
My Girlfriend just M/C she didnt even know she was preg her hpt was neg. so thats why im soo stressed out!

[proudarmywife56]

I just got the same thing Sara!! I just took a test and it was negative, bur I have several symptoms

[gokuangel]

Me 2! but its nothing unusal just the norm.! Its been 5 yrs so to actually see 2 lines I'd prolly have a heart attack and fall over! Im not tracking anymore I even quit the SAHW thing Im bk working but Im still hoping by some TEENY WEENY miracle I get to have just 1 baby! All these PG women & people bringing baby registery papers through my register at work has been making me miserable and its made me and DH fight more and cus of all it we are hardly BD'ing anymore!! Srry for that TMI Im just getting frustrated and im getting tired of all of the pushing away me and DH are doing to each other!

I REALLY hope you ladies are having better luck than me! Wish yall the best and SSBD!!

JoyR- Are you TTC again?

[degriffdog]

Thanks, I'm not testing until tomorrow or Saturday.  

[Sarah61086]

fingers crossed for you :-)

[degriffdog]

So I tested today 11 DPO - BFN  But I know it still might be too early, I still have hope.

[Sarah61086]

TO JOY - I WAS USING OVULATION STICKS AND IT CAME UP POSITIVE, AND NOW IM BLEEDING, SO I PRESUME BY THAT I OVULATED.
SOME PEOPLE HAVE SAID ITS DARK BECAUSE ITS OLD BLOOD, BUT I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY I WOULD HAVE OLD BLOOD AND IF I DID, COULD THAT AFFECT THE EGG IMPLANTING?

TO TASIA - IF YOUR LATE AND HAVENT STARTED A NORMAL PERIOD, DEFINATELY SEE YOUR DR FOR BLOOD TESTS, THAT WILL TELL YOU EITHER WAY IF YOU ARE PREGNANT. ALL PREGNANCIES ARE DIFFERENT AND YOU MAY NOT GET A BFP EVEN THOUGH YOUR PREGNANT. WITH MY 1ST I DIDNT GET BFP UNTIL 9 DAYS LATE. SOME DR'S WONT SEE YOU THOUGH UNTIL 2 WEEKS LATE, SO RING YOURS AND SEE WHAT THEY SAY :-D

[JoyRenee]

The color and flow don't matter actually. You can have spotting for two days and that can be considered a normal period or you can bleed heavily for five days and that is considered normal. There is also a wide range of color- pink, red, brown, brassy, mucousy, even black.

Secondary infertility is something that comes to mind. Have you been tested to make sure you're ovulating?

[tsie]

wish u all the best ladies! It will happen,keep the faith.

[Tasia32]

I'm right a long with you ladies. I have taken at least 4 test and all BFN's. AF was supposed to start last week on wed or thursday but nothing. Sunday I had a spot of reddish brown but since then nothing but cramping on and off. Any of you ladies know what I should make of this. It has never happened to me before. When I got pregnant with my son I tested the day AF was due and had an immediate BFP. What do you ladies think?