i am not sure how it works in canada toronto

[zahra1996]

I am born on January 1 1996 now I turned 17 so is it possible for me to marry in summer before turning 18

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[meNmy3Cs]

I absolutely agree with @GoBrandiRanger she has came off kind and said some real shi*. My situation is some what similar to hers i have 2kids n been with hubby 6years neither one of us are the same person we where back then n we find ourselves wanting to do so much and can't. So if you dont take none of the other oppiniated peoples comments into consideration plz take @GoBrandiRanger kind advice Good luck with whatever decision you choose its your life

[GoBrandiRanger]

I was with my ex for 6 years and didn't realize until I was 19 that he wasn't what I wanted out of life. We're not bashing the guy at all, just letting you know that who you are now is different from who you'll be in five years. My sister will be 18 in September and she's getting ready for college, wants to see Paris and Rome, has plans to go to Africa and help underprivileged children.

Just think of all the things you could do with your life! I had my first at 23 and will have my second this may at 24 years old. There are STILL things my husband and I wanted to do! Now we're planning them for our retirement, which is so far away! Crazy part is that we've been together almost 5 years and we JUST got married 6 months ago. It takes a LOT longer to truly know someone when you're still growing up yourself.

You only get one life, sweety. Please don't waste it or mess it up so early. Marriage and children is something you can NEVER take back!

[zahra1996]

Thank u that's what I wanted to knww

[zahra1996]

Sorryyy if I am annoying u guys..what to do I am like this...I even annoy my bf sometime by asking too muchhhhh

[ashers3623]

Whats the rush?? Being pregnant and married is a lifetime commitment! I say wait a little longer and c if u still feel the same way. I know for a fact im 23 yrs old been w the same guy for 3 yrs now and married for 1 a relationship and marriage is hard!! U r very young yet!

[Des92]

Slow down.  Be a kid.  Get an education.  Get a good job.  Get a nice home.  You don't want to get married and realize you have nothing.  And dear 7 months isn't anything, be together for awhile (like AT LEAST a year) and see how things go.  Whats the rush?  If he truly cares for you and loves you then he will wait.  What I don't get here is WHY on earth would a 33 year old man want to be with a 17 year old anyways??  You guys are from two different generations, and surely a man with a brain would want to be with a lady more his age.  Good luck to you.  You got a lot to learn.  P.s I really am not trying to be rude, but you need to think things through more.

[soon2bmamma]

Age of consent in Canada is unfortunately 16 so he can't get charged for having sex with you however you still can't get married to him without parental or provincial consent before you are legally an adult (18 yrs old)

[searra]

If your parts can even prove you have been sexual with his ,his butt is gone for at least 10 years and will be listed as a sex offender for the rest of his life!! He wont be aloud at schools , parts, and everyone will be discusted by him living by them. It will be on the interney and he has to let everyone know were he lives. It will destory his and your life.

[NikiHans]

By the time I was 17 I had two children and let me tell you raising them has been the HARDEST thing I can imagine. Only a year ago I graduated college and no longer had to work two minimum wage jobs to put food on the table. And guess what? Their sperm donor is NOWHERE TO BE FOUND. Thank goodness I have a husband who is man enough to love them as his own when their sperm donor walked because things got tough. He was in his late 20s and I thought he was going to be a great father and husband but I was wrong, know why? BECAUSE I WAS STILL A CHILD. Let yourself grow up before you go and mess up your life.

[psrivs]

Congrats she listened to you.

[Cyn_henderson]

My advice..stop posting this if you're not going to accept/listen to the advice these kind women are giving. Just don't do it. I have a sister that was born in 1997. If she came to me with this I'd tell her the same thing. I'm 19 an married. I love my husband so much. But apart of me misses being able to experience the things my friends are experiencing. Like going to college an enjoying life.

[zahra1996]

Ohh myyy godddd I don't want that thank u guys for helping me other wise I would lost my love forever

[psrivs]

Wow didn't know that Muslims know each other well after a certain period of time. Don't need to say anything more cos I'm not a Muslim so won't understand.

[zahra1996]

Thanks a lot

[Kimejo_81]

I have raised my son on my own he is now 13 and quite the young man but I lost my youth doing it!!! Listen to these women. They are only trying to offer advice. Some of us from personal experience

[searra]

If you get pregnant by him  and  your seventeen. He can go to prison for STATUTORY RAPE maybe you should google that.

[zahra1996]

THANKS for our advice guys

[Kimejo_81]

Best of luck.  I'm an done offering advice. I was married at 17 and it didn't work. I know first hand I also had a baby and ya know what?? He didn't stick around either and he was close to my age! He was 18

[zahra1996]

Muslim knows each other even if they lived 7 months.....

[AliceMarie]

I'm sorry for getting annoyed but everyone is trying to help you, and it seems like it is going into one ear and out the other. You are getting really good advice. Please take it and just slow down. We are all looking out for your best interest.

[Kimejo_81]

NO YOU CAN'T NOT TILL EITHER 1. YOU ARE 18 yrs OF AGE. OR 2. YOUR PARENTS GIVE THEIR CONSENT..... WHICH AS YOU HAVE SAID THEY WILL NOT. SO YOUR ANSWER IS NO YOU CANNOT

[Pansie]

Yes but u need consent from your parents. Will ur parents let u? Do what u feel is right if u wanna get married then get married :-) good luck

[Cyn_henderson]

Google it. But I'd wait a year just to give you a chance to think an live a little. An if you still feel like you want this it's up to you.