(TMI) pregnancy and sex

[hansen20]

i know it might be alittle too soon to talk about it but i was wondering if its okay to have sex when your dilated when your towards the end of your pregnancy. im 20w5d no this is not my first child but it is the first relationship that i had that i have been with my babies dad. i have 2 other kids but with other guy so i never did any sexual stuff with a guy with my 2 previous pregnancies so thats why i was wondering. my kids are almost 4 years old and an 18.5 month old.  

[hansen20]

well thats good=).

[Ashelen]

Not really in my experience.. You can't really tell

[hansen20]

lol oh no=) but thats so funny. i dont mean to ask but does it feel different when your 3+more dilated?

[Ashelen]

Just to warn you though when I was 4+cm it freaked hubby out a little lol

[Ashelen]

Yes like mentioned as long as your water isn't broken its fine. I was 4/5 cm with my son and the doctor told us to go home and get busy lol. I'm 3+cm right now and very active with hubby on doctor's orders!

[momabear86]

I'm 30 weeks and still going. I think when I get too uncomfortable and near my due date I will stop :p

[hansen20]

oh okay=)). i had 2 c-sections and this time the doctor is letting me do a vba2c natural birth after 2 c-sections. im not totally sure what labor feels like, all i know is that its 5minutes apart around the time you are due between 36-42weeks.

[Sydneylilyrose]

When you're 4-6 cms you'll be at the hospital in labour....
You can have sex up until your water breaks or you go into labour.

[hansen20]

so its okay to have sex=) is what im understanding. so is there a point where i have to stop what i mean is like if i was 4-6cm

[buggie216]

Totally fine...just not if your water breaks...or if you have a leak... :)