Family problems

[nessa139]

I recently miscarried and my mother is talking to everyone about it just now and it is killing me :..( I don't know what to do :..( she is talking the worst about me and making fun of me I don't know what to do I am emotionally reaked I don't believe how a mother can talk like this about her daughter

[nessa139]

I know it breaks my heart for her to do this I couldn't help it yesterday :.( I just cried and cried for hours :.(

[Ashelen]

I'm sorry I don't know why I thought it was your mother-in-law...but the same thing stands. You should not be treated this way and if she is unwilling to be civil, she does not deserve to be a part of your life right now. cut out contact and let her know that you deserve love and compassion.

[Ashelen]

your husband needs to stand up to his mom...no woman should be treated like this when she is grieving the loss of a child, and it is his responsibility to not let HIS family abuse you in such a way.

I'm so very sorry for your loss...some people are only happy when they are causing other people misery.

[jennjenn18]

Im so sorry hun! Tht breaks my heart

[nessa139]

It hurts because she talks about me right in front of her and I go and try to talk to her and it's horrible I just hate it she would tell me that I would eat to much when I bearly would it was an emotional pregnacy

[jennjenn18]

I hate that my mom was the same way with me and my sister

[nessa139]

I know she treated me badly through out my pregnacy and now my aunt comes out pregnant and Its the best to her

[khawkins]

First off I  am so sorry for your loss and that you are experiencing this kind of pain.  I am going to suggest talking to your mother about how her words are effecting you.  Sometimes when people are grieving they do not know how to deal with it, so use laughter and jokes.  This might be her way of dealing with her own greif.  I am sure that if you talked to her and told how it made you feel she will start to think twice about what she says in public to people about you.  

[jennjenn18]

Its best just to.talk to her or if ur moms like mine talkings not an option!im sorry that ur going threw tht I hope all gets better for you! Try ignoring her