new mom to be worried

[jennaG9286]

i am 12 weeks and under tons of stress and worried it can agfect my baby..im afraid of misscarriage :(... how do i know its not like i can feel my baby... im just concerned..please any advice would be wobderful

[jennaG9286]

Thank you so much..this means alot..im doing my best..i just finished up grad school..work o
is crazy on my feet for ten hours straight..living situation ***** but i just want the best for my baby.. we both do..thanks again :)

[MamaBear0612]

Everybody's worried about miscarriage, especially first trimester, that's natural, but try to think positive. Don't worry too much about stress, try to relax when you can but realize that many a mom has been pregnant through stressful situations, and their babies have been just fine. I actually started bleeding at 5 weeks, so I was pretty sure I was losing her, AND work was crashing down on me, AND I was getting serious pressure from my grad program AND I was going through major conflict and problems with the baby's father...so I think I can safely say in my extremely stressful life the first trimester was the most I've ever been stressed out in my life. And my little one is just fine, I'm 4 weeks from delivery and she's kicking the heck out of me. I think they're stronger than their mommies sometimes. Don't worry, things will get better. :)