Fed up..

[melissa_182]

I'm tired of putting up with my husband's crap, I just wanna pack my things & disappear but I have no where to go.. :'( don't have any family & my friend's all live an hour away, I don't have any money.. :'(

[Mommyoftwolilgirls]

Were do u live

[Jules_mommy]

Every time I see one of your posts I feel so bad for you :( not only do you have to deal with problems in your own family but you also live with people who are awful and now your husband is doing this to you?! I am so so sorry girl :( it's time for you to start finding resources and saving up to get out of there, with or without your husband. I read that you're struggling with insurance issues but once you get it figured out I suggest looking into therapy for you and your husband and hopefully you can fix it. Maybe once the baby comes he'll stop cheating and focus on being a good dad and husband. If I was you I would start secretly saving money just incase you have to get out or as awful as it would be consider going back to your parents just until you can get on your own. There are loads and loads of programs out there for young moms, start looking and applying for whatever you can. I know it can suck to be on government help but if you need it, use it. It's there for people who need it. As soon as you have the baby start finding a job and maybe even not tell your husband exactly how much you make and save a couple hundred a month. I'm sure you'll qualify for free daycare if you have nobody to watch the baby. I hope things get better, I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. It has to be even harder being pregnant and hormonal :( just keep telling yourself that things get better. You'll get through this.

[melissa_182]

Thank you(:

[meglovesmario]

Yeah go for housing its government thing alot of single mothers live for free :)  I hope u find someone else and yes u do deserve better stay strong n take care

[melissa_182]

He's not willing to change... I thought he had changed when I left him 2 years ago but clearly he hasn't.

[Mommyoftwolilgirls]

Talk to him

[melissa_182]

Thanks, I'm already looking into it.

[cherish12103]

People make mistakes.... me and my bf both kissed other people when we were first together, broke up, then got over it and have been together and faithful for over 10 years!! Change is scary and sometimes it takes some adjustment so you have 2 choices, you either talk to him, hold out and see what happens, or leave.... Either way you still have the choice to change your mind later (if he is willing)... If it's meant to be it will!! Good luck with everything

[showard022]

That's deffinetly not worth it. I'm sorry sweett. Look into government assistance. They usually have a hot line that helps you find emergency help.

[melissa_182]

I forgave him the first time & we worked it out atleast I thought we had but it's now the second time he's cheating & its not fair...I know I deserve better but at the same time it hurts me to go after I said I wouldn't leave him.

[melissa_182]

Yeah my parents did & what I least want is to go back with them. My dad would still hit me when I was 17 it was awful I'm not going back to that.

[collegeMarriedpregnant]

If he is not a faithful husband you don't have to live with that but I'm a believer that all problems can be fixed.  If you can see yourself trusting him again is talk to him and see if you can work it out.  If he betrays you again then you have him a second chance and he blew it and I would say leave his butt

[melissa_182]

We bearly got married a month ago & I don't know what do to.. :'( he always makes me feel like I'm worthless.. I try to keep my head up & be strong but all he does is bring me down. I have no friends to talk too about my problems so I hold everything in & its slowly killing me inside that I wanna tell him how I feel but he doesn't care.

[showard022]

I'm sure of something happened were your husband was cheating on You your parents would take you back. If I remember from a previous post they stopped talking to you when you left and married him. I hope he isn't but if he is maybe that could a see some of the qualities and we're worried. I hope he's not and hope everything works out for you. Really!

[meglovesmario]

I just read u said hes cheating  on u aww im sorry

[meglovesmario]

What crap.is he doing to.bothering.you? Tell him quit his.****.or.your gone I know.u say u dont have the support to leave but threaten.him anyways. like above me try to relax think about the baby and I know. I try my hardest not...to stress but I.know.we can.only.hold.in.so.much

[melissa_182]

I can't if he's cheating..

[cherish12103]

Hormones sweetheart.... Just relax and think of the reasons you loved him in the first place, try to see the good things he does and not the bad!