My bf doesnt like to hav much sex bcos ma bellys to big. But wen i want it i jst say i thnk we shld try hav sex later. And he goes ok. No guy will turn it down. Or as above strip of and see his reaction then lol
With my husband I would try to initiate it and he would shut me down saying he doesn't have the stamina because of our age difference he can't keep up with me. So I finally got fed up and I quit taking no for an answer. I guess you can say I raped the poor man but he only said no once or twice then he was singin a different tune.
When he comes home from work greet him at the front door completely naked, take him by the hand, and take him to bed. Boy did my hubby ever have the most shocked look on his face when I did that! Take control randomly, for example if you're already laying in bed, just get up and straddle him and tell him you want him. My hubby stopped asking for sex and when we talked about it he said it was because he didn't think I would be in the mood for it. So maybe it's a similar situation with yours?