For all of u that dont dare to ask... lol

[lilangel14]

So there is many of us that end up with the words that the husbands don't like to hear: "NO SEX" "NO INTERCOURSE" "PELVIC REST" "NO STIMULATION" now what is the difference and what can and can't u do? What I've understand so far is for PELVIC REST u can't even have any ORGASMS :/ but what about the others..???

I have some internal bleeding by my placenta baby is complete fine though and doctor told me "no intercourse plz, nothing in the vagina" does that means no anal sex either? Or nipple stimulation? I'm not sure and felt Like asking.

Also I was doing some research and found out oral sex its Really bad during pregnancy since it can cause some air and be dangerous for the baby.. someone heard of this before?

[lilangel14]

Thanks for Everyone that replied.. I know its hard especially because that's a beautiful thing in a marriage lol.. we can't wait to have our baby :)

[1st_time_mommy91]

I was put on pelvic rest two days before our anniversary. The doctor went into details with me and said no intercourse, no inserting anything in the vagina, no stimulation (nipple or clitoral), no nothing that might cause my uterus to contract. After a few weeks I started feeling extremely driven to have sex and the smallest thing would stimulate me, even my husband just touching my shoulder or kissing me. I couldn't control it, but I got over excited and because of that, started into preterm labor and I've been in the hospital almost two weeks now and I'm being kept here at least two more weeks until I'm 34 weeks and can go into labor at the hospital by my house. And it still ***** because I'm still on pelvic rest and haven't had sex in forever! I feel so selfish because I am really looking forward to when this baby is out and my body is healed so I can get back in bed with my hubby! Sorry if it's TMI, but really try to avoid stimulation of any kind! You don't want things to escalate! If anything happened to your baby, you'd probably beat yourself up forever about it. Put him/her first; pregnancy doesn't last forever! Hope this helps!

[Bub02]

My first pregnancy I masterbated all the time, cliteral only and I think it helped with giving birth lol. Stuff sex I couldnt be botherd.

[dingus55]

Unfortunately they pretty much mean the same thing. The stimulation you get from all of them can cause your uterus to contract which can increase the.bleeding. this also includes nipple stimulation. Even though you are not orgasming you are still stimulating the.uterus. trust me I had the same thing and.it *****. Bleeding for me stopped about 15 weeks..they did an ultra scan to make sure everything was ok before hand. As far as oral sex that isn't just for when preggo its all the time. It can cause an air bubble that can travel to your heart...just don't blow lol its very rare and.very hard to do.