Yes to all of you, sorry for all of your bad days, and hope these guys shape up some, but if not, glad we have this forum to vent and get some shared understanding...nobody understands it like somebody who's been through it, so I'm glad you gals are out there. Socalledchaos, take care and please let us know what happens. I'll say a prayer as well for you and your baby.
Ugh I had a sucky week Saturday I had to go to the ER because my gallbladder is bad and I was in severe pain they gave me morphine and sent me home then Sunday my fever got up to 103 so my husband made me go back and I threw up all week until yesterday, I lost 7 lbs this week. My OB called me and they have set up a appointment with a specialist to have my gallbladder removed next month and I'm so nervous for my son.
I am so sorry to hear about your accident socalledchaos. I wish you the very best and will be praying for you and baby. Please keep us updated.
Usually I don't vent, but iv had a Hell of a week. I'm 16 weeks pregnant, who I'm having bad morning sickness, constant pains, head aches and have a 20 month old. My parner has recently started just going to mates after work or not coming over at all. (We don't live together at the moment, he doesn't want to get a house yet, yet were about to have our second child !!!) This week iv seen him twice and one night he came over late about 9:00 and our son was already in bed. The other night I went to his house and he just sat watching tv nearly paying any attention to him and made me bath him feed him and do everything for him. Which I don't mind, but when iv been so sick all week I think would it hurt for him to just take some sort of responsibilty or even play with his son ?? His excuse is I'm tired iv worked all day. But he doesn't work weekends and the past 3 I haven't seen him. Before this he was really good its just these last few weeks. It's making me just want to leave him as I feel like I'm already in this alone.
Mines the same. I work 9 or 10 hours a day and its killing me. Then im in trouble for coming home and sitting down for 5 mins. Calls me lazy. Im on my feet walking all day and its so draining. He works outside in 35 degrees which I know is hard also but they just dont understand how we feel. Im 13 Weeks so im hoping to get some energy back soon. So at the moment im leaving all the house cleaning till my day off and yeah, doesnt take long to get messed again. Or I go into the kitchen and there are 6 cupboards open. Drives me nuts! But at the end of the day I love him, and wouldnt be able to do it without him. I think sometimes we have to just learn to love them the way we are. No matter how much they make us cry.
I should have been thankful I thought the worst of my Friday was getting woken up. We went to get lunch today..I was driving and a old lady ran a stop sign and hit my car. It's probably totaled. I was brought to er by ambulance and most of me checked out fine, but now I have been moved to L&D because the accident has thrown me into labor. They are gonna try to get it to stop and i'm hoping they can. If not we will be having a baby at 34w1d. I pray if that happens she will be ok. I don't feel good and it's gonna be a long night! :(