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HELP!! Girlfriend MIGHT Possible be Pregnant.
My 19 year old girlfriend and I think she might possibly be pregnant. She told me herself that she usually get her period on the seventh, eighth, or latest, ninth day of the month. However, it is three days past the due cycle. Long story short... We were slow grinding after I ejaculated (So there might be some dry semen on my penis), and we did not use a condom.
ANYWAY, I do not want her to be pregnant.
We are still not sure if she is or not. It has only been a few weeks since we last did that activity, but not having her period is scaring her... And me. I do not want to go out and buy a home pregnancy test, probably because it might be too early, and might show negative results.
SO, the question is... What should I do to prevent her becoming pregnant at this stage? She shows no signs of being pregnant, so I came here to seek professional or experienced advice.
Should I buy birth control pills to suppress this? Or is there some kind of abortion pill? If so, can someone recommend me a brand or a local drug store to purchase this product? Please please I need some help... I cannot stop worrying. Thanks for taking your time to read this topic. If you have further more question, please do not hesitate to ask, and I will respond as soon as possible. Thanks again!!
ANYWAY, I do not want her to be pregnant.
We are still not sure if she is or not. It has only been a few weeks since we last did that activity, but not having her period is scaring her... And me. I do not want to go out and buy a home pregnancy test, probably because it might be too early, and might show negative results.
SO, the question is... What should I do to prevent her becoming pregnant at this stage? She shows no signs of being pregnant, so I came here to seek professional or experienced advice.
Should I buy birth control pills to suppress this? Or is there some kind of abortion pill? If so, can someone recommend me a brand or a local drug store to purchase this product? Please please I need some help... I cannot stop worrying. Thanks for taking your time to read this topic. If you have further more question, please do not hesitate to ask, and I will respond as soon as possible. Thanks again!!
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Wow this conversation has kinda went crazy! As Clysta said your kinda jumping the gun here, she hasnt taken a pregnancy test to even say for sure if she is pregnant or not, and yes she can take one now... then you guys go from there, her period could just be late cause thats what they do sometimes regardless of how regular a girl can be... and i get what you mean when you were saying that you guys are saving sex for marriage... in the sense of losing your virginity obviously, yes the fooling around is considered forms of sex but you guys are not actually having sex... and yes you are on here for advice for the both of you, as you said you both are scared so knowing all the options isnt a bad thing(and yes you do sound clueless but your a 19 yr old virgin male...kinda makes senseyou dont know a lot about birth control...sounds pretty understandable) but just take it step by step... first see if she is even pregnant.. then go from there... and yes if its a false alarm, next time be more careful...condoms can be used even if your not actually having sex... but good for you guys for saving your virginity till your married... that is kinda sweet- and very rare these days... good luck... hope it works out for you guys!
Wish I can delete my previous post. Kinda too slow to keep up with all those responses. Thanks girls. If I have further more questions, I will be sure to come back. You guys were a great help, and I will be sure to talk with her. Thank you.
Plan B HAS to be taken within 72 hours of unprotected sex and even then it sometimes doesnt work. It stops a woman from releasing an egg. AND it WILL not terminate an existing pregnancy. LIke Clysta said find out for sure if she is even pregnant. YOu could be worrying yourself for nothing
You are right. I have nothing to say to that. I will see as it a future wake up call. Thanks.
But what was Plan B? Was it something 72 hours after intercourse?
But what was Plan B? Was it something 72 hours after intercourse?
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