Harsh or no ?

[missytoyou]

So I told my boyfriend I sometimes regret letting him talk me out of getting an abortion. Was I wrong? I mean that's how I truly feel at times I'm tired of holding it in like I'm okay when I'm not. Like I'll even do adoption but I know he's not going for that either I feel trapped at times . Help :/

[nikkimamaofthree]

If you do not want the baby, then you need to give the baby to him. You might go through a stronger postpartum depression. Or u might change your mind once the baby gets here.

[anaerb]

Tht your body , Your choice stuff Is Ignorant. It's his baby too. If you wanted to keep the baby & He wanted you to get an abortion you would be expecting him to help you If you had the baby & Would be calling him all types of names If he didn't help. But why should he If he help when he didn't make tht decision? You guys not being married has nothing to do w/ It. It might be YOUR body but It affects HIS life as well.
I agreed w/ InsaneRoman. Talking to him about taking custody Is A good Idea because what you want DOES matter but what he wants matters JUS as much

[InsaneRoman]

I see both sides. :( Your feelings on it are as valid as his. He has his feelings and you have yours and lying and pretending won't help anyone feel better or come to a decision, right? As long as you're not throwing it in his face in a mean way I don't think it's harsh to be honest even if it's not what other people want to hear. If he wants the baby and you're considering adoption, have you talked to him about him taking custody? It will help to have a serious conversation about it all with him and you can't do that unless you're honest. :) Best of luck, hun. <3

[jackie_23s]

in the end its your body. Your choice. If youre not married you dont have too make that choice together. Yes involve him but if yoy feel thats best... what more can you do. I couldnt abort. But if i knew a baby isnt something i truely wanted id consider adoption. Think about the kid. They deserve the most love and affection. You might change your mind you might not. Just remember to think of yourself too. Youre an important factor.