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Hate the way he treats me

Cant stand the way he thinks more about his family then me and our baby it hurts so much Like yesterday i was rushed to hospital over continuing bleeding and pain and he wasn't even worried he left me an. Went bback to his mother and father house i just don't understand him no more what should I do xxx
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I do not want him to choose i just want him to care and understand us lik the doctor told him that I could lose my baby and that hurt so much he should have been there for me to not just his family the way it is the baby health is more important than anything our anyone else atm I am not capable of coping on my own when I have nobody my family is not here for me
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It shouldn't be he has to choose between you and his family. His family was his family before you and baby were. BUT him leaving you at the hospital like that when you're scared and having that happen is completely unacceptable. When it's needed, he needs to put you guys first. I would have a serious talk with him.
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Honestly and this is my opinion. I think you should let him be with his parents if he wants. That is his family. I understand the hospital part because I agree he should have been there but other than that if he wants to be with his parents then let him be. Just speaking from personal experience.
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I no its unacceptable that he treats us like that he says he's doing his best but im the one doing it all i got a home today for us and i buy baby stuff every week i get paid he ent gave a penny yet but my family thinks a lot of him and I do love him so I much and it will put me under alot of stress to leave i just dont no any more :'(
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Why would you even consider staying? He literally could not care if your life or your babys was at risk. Dont you think better for yourself or your child to leave that mess?
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I wouldn't stand for that! I always say that you get treated how you let people treat you! If you think that him going back to his parents is unexpectable then make it known. If you can't rely on him how can your child.
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