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EITHER PMS OR BFP....... PUHLEEZ

Don't you HATE it when DH stands there, helpless, and asks you to do the very thing he can do for himself?!?!?!?! For instance, "Joy, the baby needs her diaper changed" he tells me WHILE HE IS HOLDING HER and I'm off cleaning with sweat pouring down my face (the sweat is an exaggeration).

Just a few minutes ago DH is holding out sleeping baby. "Joy, can you take Abby upstairs and put her in her crib? I have to pee." WHAT?! YOU are holding her and YOU are going upstairs anyway!

This is either PMS or something else. In the car on the way home from Walmart where I bought my stupid tests, this song came on the radio by Steven Curtis Chapman called, "Cinderella" and if it weren't for my bad eyesight trying to drive in the dark, I would've been bawling my eyes out. I had to keep sniffling and coughing to stop it from happening.

I'm just venting, just rambling because I'm too anxious to go to bed and too annoyed to go read by myself in my room. I think I'm going to go to the bathroom and see if AF "rode in on her broomstick, got off, and started to sweep my uterus out"!!! (I stole that from someone's blog, that is not my quote). I am not hormonal like this unless pregnant. I'm an angry pregnant person (as has been my experience). BUT WHY NO BFP when I have SYMPTOMS?
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342647 tn?1291107933
hi, i just jumped on hear after a day of cleaning (including sorting and folding 6 loads of washing) while my husband lies on the couch with a bad back.  I know a sore back is not fun but i only have so much sympathy at the moment (in the middle of the 2ww and dealing with a very whingy 16 month old).  "can you put my heat pack in the microwave, whats for lunch, i need another pillow, i think i am ready for more meds blah blah blah. I need to count to ten i think. Anyway i know what you mean about husbands i don't think life has really changed much for them since their own mothers were wiping their bums.  

Really hoping for your bfp as we need some cheering up.  Good luck and keep us posted.
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LOL! Yeah, I know, I know. I'm not an emotional person. I mean I laugh and joke around, but I don't get hung up on stuff or freak out over things or even cry and get teary-eyed. I do feel different but I haven't had consistent cycles since before I had babies and then I had a miscarriage, another pregnancy... so it's been a couple years and I just don't remember much about Pre-AF symptoms.

This freaking out is definitely NOT helping me! Thanks!!!
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187316 tn?1386356682
My computer has been in the shop for about 2 months. The only way I could get on was if I drove all the way to my parents house which didn't happen too often. I have lots of new pictures of her! I can't believe she is going to be 2 months old on friday. She's already changed so much!

I would say go with your gut feeling. Your not one of the people that think they are pregnant every months. In fact this is the first time I think I've heard you think that you are. If you think it feels differently then give it a couple days and test. I would say test wednesday if you don't get it. Haha easier said then done though right. I love how when some people post all I can think in my head is "geez they need to calm down" because it doesn't seem like a big deal but as soon as it happens to me I become the hughest hypocryte.
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Oh, where have you been, Malia?!?!?!?!?! I need to see pics of Aspen (do you have any new ones on myspace?). Anyway, AF was due yesterday according to FF and due today according to MyMonthlyCycles. I'm 13dpo. But definitely having some strange and different cramping, so hoping. I'm trying to relax and chill out but it's not working. It's funny how when it's YOU in this position how emotional and worked up you can get!
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296738 tn?1235996403
I wen thru 13 preg tests and never got a positive.  I had to go to the doctor get blood drawn to find out.  I can understand your aggrivation with your husband.  Just keep in mind that you may be a little extra moody b/c of the stress over wanting get preg.
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187316 tn?1386356682
I can understand your stress since I too have someone who even though they are holding the baby says things like that. SO annoying. Maybe its just that you don't have enough HCG. God knows when I was pregnant I tested about three times a day for a week before I got my BFP... got it 2 days before missed period with first response. Are you late?
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