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Last night i went into the hospital. i had bad cramping from when i got back from the doctor. and i started to bleed red blood. it wasn't a lot but it was enough to have me scared. The baby is fine and the doctor said my body is just giving me a warning. The baby is fine and the doctor wants me on bed rest not doing anything until my second trimester because my anxiety came back and its just not doing me any good. As for me i am not fine. I have been crying for an hour now and just upset about where my life is going. I am really happy that this baby is holding on for me this time around and i know I'm ment to have this one. BUt i am so hurt and disgusted with that my babys daddy has done to me and i know i have to get over it. but i have loved that man for 5 years now and it is disgusting that he wouldnt tell me what he had knowing it could cause another miscarriage. me and him are not on good terms right now but his family still cares a whole lot and called me today to make sure i was ok. i appreciate the support i get from you guys also. it means more then you guys know when you message me telling me to stay strong. thank you ladies. without you id be much worse. but hearing your stories and knowing I'm not the only one takes a lot more stress off. thank you guys. you are really a blessing.
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What is your kik name :) I had similar experience!
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Watch a funny movie and eat some fruit or what i would really do is eat junk food lol but not too much ;) or even funny things on youtube. Go shopping for your bubba tomorrow I know your still early in pregnancy but go buy a blanket or lil onesie for bubba any colour you wouldnt mind dressing a boy or girl in. Or some socks, socks are useful and you go through a lot lol well I do with my daughter get a bib too, do anything to distract urself from the stress in your life right now. Everytime you cry hug your baby(tummy) rub it and tell baby whats up. Trust me it works! Lol as weird as it may sound to some I do that when im upset and crying I rub my belly tryna hug baby haha and telling my baby whats up and honestly your baby will make you know everything is okay. One time I was home alone scared and I touched my tummy then she kicked and I felt like everything was fine like shes watching out for me :). Just get excited for your baby, im so close with my daughter she makes me the hapiest, sometimes I even feel we have a better conection then with my partner hahhah weird hey. Be strong for your baby, he/she needs you right now. They showed you that, now you need to show them you will protect them no matter what ur going through and when your down and wana cry. Lay down cry and connect with ur baby. Trust me they will help you. Soon enough when u feel baby kick you will know ther listening and helping you.
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Watch a funny movie and eat some fruit or what i would really do is eat junk food lol but not too much ;) or even funny things on youtube. Go shopping for your bubba tomorrow I know your still early in pregnancy but go buy a blanket or lil onesie for bubba any colour you wouldnt mind dressing a boy or girl in. Or some socks, socks are useful and you go through a lot lol well I do with my daughter get a bib too, do anything to distract urself from the stress in your life right now. Everytime you cry hug your baby(tummy) rub it and tell baby whats up. Trust me it works! Lol as weird as it may sound to some I do that when im upset and crying I rub my belly tryna hug baby haha and telling my baby whats up and honestly your baby will make you know everything is okay. One time I was home alone scared and I touched my tummy then she kicked and I felt like everything was fine like shes watching out for me :). Just get excited for your baby, im so close with my daughter she makes me the hapiest, sometimes I even feel we have a better conection then with my partner hahhah weird hey. Be strong for your baby, he/she needs you right now. They showed you that, now you need to show them you will protect them no matter what ur going through and when your down and wana cry. Lay down cry and connect with ur baby. Trust me they will help you. Soon enough when u feel baby kick you will know ther listening and helping you.
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Glad baby is doing okay ... Try not to stress and get as much rest as possible . Every thing will be fine .
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thank you yes i did. it was much bigger for 10 weeks it didn't look like a worm it looked like a tiny gummy bear lol. but the hospital didn't give me a copy :( thank you very much :)
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I'm glad your doing okay! but hey! On the bright side, you got to see your baby again :)
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thank you so much. i know it will. a lot of moms who have my kik have kikd me all day. so i felt bad i didn't get a chance till now to kik them. so i figured id post up to let everyone know its ok. :)
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thank you very much. when i saw my baby yesterday the doctor told me wow look at the strong beat that baby is just fine and healthy. your body is just letting you know you're stressing to much and need to take it easy. it was a big huge relief. i know we all go through rough times and months from now i'll laugh about it. I'm trying to be strongest i can for my baby and i am so blessed to know god is on our side this time. thank you so much for saying that. i appreciate the very kind words. :)
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I'm really happy that baby is ok. You'll get through this mamma. I promise, it'll all get better with time.
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I'm so sorry you're having such a rough time :( glad to hear your baby is doing okay though. Things will get better! You know we're all here to support you through this. Just take it easy mama! I know it's hard but your baby needs you to be strong!
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i am too. my babys a little fighter. thank you very much :)
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I'm glad everything is okay with you and your baby! Just take it easy for a while and don't stress. Keep your head up! :)
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